This was one of the hardest , things i had to learn, i,m not talking of the usual things , ie; paying the bills ect; but the harder things , like recognising, that we have acted like prats, i do a lot,lol This is so hard to cope with , it can involve many factors , like embaressment, facing people, this is realy being ....grown up, But when the time comes that you can say, "ok i messed up, but i take responsability, i will not do that again, " then you have learn,t a big lesson, your taking responsability, not looking for any one to blame , but accepting the consequences, and not afraid to move on, that,s brave, move into the future with confidence , yes you will make many mistakes, make a prat of yourself, like me, lol.....but ... being prepared to accept we all make mistakes and not beating yourself up, boy..... welcome to the world love ,n, hugs rusty |