THESE EVOCOTIVE WORDS HAVE ALWAYS MEANT MUCH TO ME. MAYBEIT,S MY AQUIRIAN MOON, LOL. WHAT , I,M TALKING ABOUT HERE THOUGH , IS NOT SO MUCH WORLD FREEDOM, AS PERSONAL"MIND" FREEDOM. WHEN INSIDE A RELATIONSHIP, OR IF ALONE WITH CHILDREN, WE SO OFTEN EITHER FORGET, OR ARE NOT ALLOWED , OUR OWN "SPACE" .....THIS IS SOMETHING WE ALL NEED ,BADLY, THERE ARE WAYS TO COPE WITH THIS, FOR INSTANCE MOST OF YOU KNOW , I LIVE WITH A HUSBAND WITH MIND PROBLEMS, WHILE NOT SAYING ANYTHING , HE CAN SEND OUT "VIBES"TO LET ME KNOW HE,S AROUND LOL, I NEEDED TO DISTANCE MYSELF, NOW ONE WAY I COPED WAS TO INDULGE MYSELF IN ONE OF THOSE CUBOARDS IN WHICH MY COMPUTER IS KEPT, WHEN OPEN THE DOORS GIVE ME A SENSE OF A OFFICE, ....THAT,S MY PERSONAL SPACE!!THERE ARE OTHER WAYS, TELL YOUR PARTNER /CHILDREN YOU NEED A LITTLE YOU TIME, EACH DAY, THIS NEAD NOT CAUSE ROWS, POINT OUT HOW THEY NEED THEIR , TOY BOXES, GARAGES , SHEDS , OFFICES FOR THEM, TRY TO BE BRAVE AND FIRM, DON,T GIVE OUT PASS WORDS , EVEN TO MEMBERS OF FAMILY, IN RELATIONSHIPS, ESPECIALY WHEN THE OTHER , HAS , "RESCUED" YOU FROM A BAD SITUATION, WE DEVELOP A TENDENCY TO "TELL ALL", NOW YOUR PARTNER MIGHT BE THE BEST PERSON IN THE WORLD,.....BUT... YOU STILL NEED YOUR SPACE, OTHERWISE YOU BECOME WHAT IS CALLED CO-DEPENDENT, IE; BOTH RELYING ON THE OTHER TO FULFILL ALL THEIR NEEDS. THIS IS NOT HEALTHY, SO FROM TODAY TRY TO RESOLVE, THAT YOU DESERVE .....YOUR SPACE.... CHANGE YOUR PASSWORDS,GO ON BE BRAVE, THIS IS A BABY STEP, ONCE YOU HAVE DONE THIS , OH WHAT A RELIEF, THERE IS ONE PLACE YOU CAN BE ALONE IF ONLY FOR 10 MINS A DAY, LOL EVEN IF IT,S IN THE BATHROOM , WHERE ONE OF US GOES, (HY GLO LOL LOL)SO COME ON .........CRY FREEDOM YOU HAVE EARNED IT. RUSTY |
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