MANY PROFFESIONALS , GET INTO THE HABIT OF USING TECHNICAL JARGON, ( HANDS UP I DO NOW AND THEN) BUT IT,S NOT REALY NECESSARY, TAKE FOR INSTANT THE PHRASE "POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT" ALL THIS MEANS IS , .....PRAISE, AS AGAINST NEGATIVE REINFORCEMENT, LOL OR "PUT DOWNS" LOL NOW I,M ALL FOR PRAISE, .....BUT..... IF YOU CONSTANTLY PRAISE SOMEONE, THEY GET HOOKED, THEN IF YOU DON,T DO IT CONSTANTLY , THEY FEEL DEPRIVED, SO WHATS THE ANSWER, .........THE MIDDLE PATH..... GIVE PRAISE WHEN DESERVED YES. ..BUT ... NOT WHEN SOMEONES DOING WHAT ANY DECENT HUMAN WOULD DO, ALWAYS IN ALL THINGS ... THE MIDDLE PATH. |