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| | From:  RUSTY9120 (Original Message) | Sent: 6/1/2006 8:29 PM |
AS YOU ALL KNOW ""POW"" HAS A SPIRITUAL BASE..... SO TAKING THIS INTO ACCOUNT, MY QUESTION IS, EVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP,OR A SITUATION , WHERE YOU SUDDENLY THINK, " LOR! I HAVE DONE/BEEN HERE BEFORE. AN EXAMPLE OF THIS IS MY PRESENT MARRIAGE, AFTER ABOUT 5 YRS I SUDDENLY REALISED , "OH GOD I HAVE MARRIED MY MOTHER"!!!SO I SAT DOWN AND THOUGHT , AND THOUGHT........LOL, THEN I REALISED , THE LIGHT WENT ON , GOSH , I HAD ANOTHER CHANCE, TO FEEL RIGHT FOR ME ABOUT A BAD SITUATION, SO I SPOKE MY TRUTH TO MY HUSBAND, " I WAS TOO AFRAID (TERRIFIED) TO WITH MY MOTHER, I SPOKE TO HIM FROM THE HEART MANY MANY TIMES..... YOU SEE I REALISED IN ORDER TO GROW , I NEEDED TO DEAL WITH SOMETHING THAT GAVE ME THESE FEELINGS OF "TERROR"" UNTIL I DID , I WOULD NEVER FEEL INNER PEACE.........OK THAT,S ME , .......... SO WHAT LESSON DO YOU NEED TO LEARN ????? |
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I think i need to learn not to stress out about things i have no control over.
For years i used to get blamed for every small thing that ever went wrong, in the marriage, with the kids, just about everything.
Now im learning its not my fault all the time when things go wrong.
I cant put the world to rights, small things maybe, but big things, i have no control over are not my fault.
I also have to remember im in a partnership, not to face things alone, when theres someone there who will listen to me and help me through my worries and fears, not just tell me to get on with it cos they dont want to know.
I have to learn to be the person i know i can be, not the person someone expects me to be, cos no one expects me to be anything other than who and wot i am, now.
Lots to learn, always.
Sue
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