OFTEN WHEN WE ARE FEELING REALY LOW, WE TEND TO THINK "OTHERS" DON,T UNDERSTAND, ....... BUT THE PROBLEM HERE IS OFTEN, WE , DON,T TRULY ....STATE OUR FEELINGS.... THIS CAN, LEAD TO MISUNDERSTANDINGS, IT TAKES COURAGE , TO BE , TOTALY HONEST, BUT OFTEN, IT CAN BE SOOO POSITIVE, ... YOU DON,T HAVE TO BE CONFRONTIONAL, JUST THINK OF WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY ( WRITE IT DOWN,) USE WORDS LIKE "I FEEL" OR , IN MYOPINION, OR I NEED TO BE TRUTHFULL, ... DON,T APORTION BLAME, (THIS ONLY SETS PEOPLES BACKS UP, ) SIMPLY STATE YOUR FEELINGS CLEARLY, USING WORDS , LIKE I FEEL, . USE COMMUNICATION. |