please sue pass this on to Ron, ........love you have done a wonderful thing for sue, i,m sooooooo proud of you, the reason we don,t tell, bro, is because we are soooo brainwashed into thinking of ourselves as nothings.....we believe it, then we are ashamed , it must be our fault, we are somehow not good enough, else why would we be treated sooooo badly, we are deep down bright women, yet abusers convince us usualy by very clever manipulation, for egample, i was told " look i don,t want to have to rant and fffffff at youor slap you, so all you have to do love is listen to me, do as i say, it,s not nice for me to have to lose my temper ".....see what i mean bro?so we get confused , are we nuts? are they right? is it our fault? bro, i love you as my dear brother , i hope this gives you a tiny insight, love sis |