well ive done it i just cant belive i did this and did it all on my own...i am still in shock..lol..its great here and just what i wanted...boys are settling in but will be better for them when the go to school and make there new friends..has been a bit of contact from HIM! firstly a txt nessage saying hed got his divorce paoers and wasnt going to sign them cus it was all lies...ooo and he wanted to see ciaran next time he visited his mothers...i just didnt respond to the txt but was happy knowing hed got the divorce papers...then bout a week after i moved here i had a txt from him all nicey nicey saying hed started work and wanted to send ciaran money but would need out address to send it..ooo and how he hopped we were all ok and he missed us all with kisses at the end of the txt..i did txt back and said if you wana send ciaran money go through my solicator or csa...he then strted on how he wasnt going to do that and if i wanted anything i had to give him my address...he then said he knew id not moved anyway cus our old ladlord told him i was still there...lol...you gota laugh at the nutter,,i just told him to go to our old house then if he thought i was still there...such a sad little man he is...i can imaging him killing himself inside thinking ive done this and done all this without him..it was our dream but he blew it ..just made it easier for me to do xxx