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Hi , Just got to vent off abit,as My daughter and my partner have been discussing,about my ex and how it came out about me plucking up the courage to kick him out. There were things that happened and said that I must of put to the back of my head and to night they were all brought back up again. My daughter remembers the bits that I don't and it was hard hearing again what happened. Just feel abit down,sorry to have to put it here. Paula xxx |
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he will always find a reason to trow crap at you paula...but yea you have nick now so togther you can be strong enough to handle his stupid games... did you ever get councilling paula? |
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Nope Chriss I never have had anything. |
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WELL MY LOVE YOU GOT US NOW (GOD HELP YOU )LOVE ALL THE FAMILY KNOW, I,M A BIT WEIRD , BUT PAULA , PLEASE DON,T GET UPSET AT ME, BUT .. I,M PICKING UP A LOT OF ANGER IN YOU , THAT,S NEVER BEEN RELEASED, IF I,M RIGHT?WHY NOT TRY A GOOD CUSS IN HERE, NOTHING SHOCKS US, HONEST , TRULY SORRY IF I OFFEND LOVE N HUGS RUSTY |
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No Rusty you haven't offended me at all lol. I did have a lot of anger,but it is wearing off slowly.I jsut feel angry that a bloke can beat his wife for 18yrs and also one of his kids for anything that the kid did,and then have an affair with my best mate and get up,walk away and get treated as if he is the good guy by all,and also start a buisness,with her fiddling the books and not pay a penny towards his kids in 7yrs! Lucky for me the kids saw him for what he is and will not go near him or talk to him,but he had for many years stalked us,he started again at xmas but my partner put a stop to that one lol. Sorry venting off again told you you'd get it in drips and drabs lol x |
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paula 1st thank gawd i didn,t upset you,  now , i grew up in the sort of atmoshere you describe, not funny, i was quietly furious for many yrs , i know you will understand that, all inside, yet feeling worthless at the same time, my rationing was , "if people who are supposed to love you can treat you like that, how can one be worth anything?" yet , paula , after many yrs i learnt, anger is good , it motivates us to change things, not simply for us but for others , come to think of it, it may be 1 of the reasons i began pow, Paula, i get a "healing feel around you?"could you channel with your daughter , small groups , aimed at empowering abused children?? maybe at a church, womens aid ect ? just a thought /feeling, love you girl rustyohhh wheres your pic for our family album?? |
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you have such a lot of love and support around you now paula and this is why you are not affraid of letting it all out now..about blumming time girl xx is it still not to late to get some councilling with a profesional?? |
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Ok just got to vent off..... Took my oldest son who is ADHD,( the one my ex beat) to hi medication review today.Found out that they maybe just shutting his case when he is 18 and they just stop his medication.Also that he has had high blood pressure for over a year now. They are going to send us to the big Dr there and it is up to him if he gets to be put over to the adult section,all down to him now grrr. No wonder there are so many young lads put away in prison if they are kicked out of the mental program and thier medication dropped just like that. I have told them that in 5 yrs time all the stuff will start again with the ex when we have to sell the family home,so I'm hoping they will keep him on the books for the suport he and I will need to cope with this and anything else the ex wants to throw at us. So now it's down to a waiting game up untill August. Hugs Paula xxx |
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that does sound blummimg stupid to me but then again so so damm typical of this world we live in..how a bout going to your local MP for help on this paula...or the press...although i can understand you not wanting to be over the papers and local news with that ex arsehole being about...lets just hope and pray his next DR is one of the best xxx |
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Well just found out another thing yesterday about what ex has left behind with us. Bex my daughter has been suffering for over a year now,with agrophobia,depression ect and just started counciling,but a month ago,she developed sores down below and was tested for everything(which all came back clear) still it's carried on,then started with a temperture and stomach pains which are painful.There is one thing, she isnt able to have a relationship on personal level with her fiance now. Well it is turning out it is all to do with the ex's mental abuse when the y were all young. Grrrrrr. I had to sit my lad down this morning,and tell him cretain things as he has been having a go at her,calling her skiver,ect.It has got a bit much at mo and Nick has gone to his own flat today,because he things I didnt handel something right. I realy wish now I had never met thier dad,and had them,just so I'd never have put them through this. God I feel sick. |
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i could bloody shoot your ex paula i realy could cus you are all so lovely..please dont blame yourself paula...you didnt do any of this..HE DID.... and one day he will get whats coming to him ...love to you all especialy bex we must realy try and meet up paula before i move away xxx |
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paula i just dont know what to say..im shocked at nick for saying this.i realy am..yes paul i know you and i know your lovely kids..bex craig and tim..you are lucky to have each other and they are so so lucky to have a special mum like you..what nick has said is very very worrying..i guess due to his past he doesnt know what its live to have a loving relationship from a loving caring mother ..iam still so shocked at what hes said..and what on earth is he doing putting it up in another blumming group??? |
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