For your daughter, how about something as simple as 12 single roses delivered each day? Each with a little note. Then by the 12th day she has a whole dozen!
Don't know about your hubby. What does he enjoy doing? I'd do something small each day with a little note. Maybe something that reminds you of something fun you've done together this year.
I'll be keeping you in my prayers Felicia! How long will you be deployed?
Michelle