1 Corinthians 12:31 But covet earnestly the best gifts: and yet shew I unto you a more excellent way.
You should learn about love, pray about love and develop love by loving others.
God is love, so when you walk in His love you abide in Him, He is present. Because we walk in God's love by recieving and expressing it, we should not decieve ourselves into thinking we can love God while we hate or dislike other people {see 1 John 4:20}
We seek many things in the course of our lifetime hoping to find fulfillment. But most of these things disappoint. When we decide to walk in love we discover it not only blesses others, it also blesses us.