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| | | From: mike's mom (Original Message) | Sent: 6/8/2008 6:44 PM |
Well here it is a little over a year since Michael died and i'm still crazy my boyfriend of 7 years told me it was over couldn't go through any more of my misserableness he said for the last 1-1/2 years that i've been so unhappy that he can't go on any longer like this. When Michael diedi part of me died i'm sure you all know what i mean and i don't feel any happiness anymore. Everywhere i look i have Michels pictures around would it be wrong to put them away? whenever i look around all i do is cry and be angry and unhappy. Don't know what is right? Thanks for listening |
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Hi Mike's Mom I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for the pain your going through. My relationship hasn't been going well either. As to the pictures I do what I feel I know Jacob doesn't mind what I do. I found it hard as like you I have pictures everywhere, now I take them down when I'm finding it especially hard just till I feel strong enough to have them up again. I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking and praying for you Andrea |
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Thanks Andrea, I went through alot of grief today finally i took Michaels pictures down it eased some of the pain i almost had wall to wall of him staring at me all the time couldn't think or anything i took a nerve pill feel alot better now. Thanks Mary |
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Hi Mary I'm glad your feeling a bit better. I keep confusing people because i take them down and put them back up in differant places. Michael knows how much they hurt sometimes and I'm sure he would rather you manage to get though each day than not. Everynight I ask God to replace the sorrow in my heart with Joy and it has helped me, maybe you should ask the same. Peace and gentle healing. I'm thinking and praying for you. Andrea |
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| | | From: MomOf4 | Sent: 6/18/2008 7:46 PM |
Dear Mary...I am so sorry that your boy friend feels that way. Unfortunately, loosing a child does put a terrible strain on even the strongest of marriages. And, sometimes, it tears the couple apart. I hope that you are doing better by now. Taking the pictures may take him from your sight, but, nothing can ever take him from your heart. If putting the pictures away, at least for awhile, helps you to get by, then that is what you should do. Keeping you in my prayers for peace and gentle healing. Love and hugs...Rean |
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Hi everyone i have been doing much better not going to say that Michael isn't in my thoughts everyday cause he is it just is a little bit easier now didn't put all the pictures away just down the hallway with other pictures i still cry but he even at 37 was my baby boy. Thanks everyone for listening to me. Love to all Mary (Mikes Mom) |
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| | From:  et60629 | Sent: 6/24/2008 7:05 AM |
After I lost my daughter and grandaugher I was so depressed I pushed my girlfriend away for me because I didn't want to drag her down in my depression. We were split up for about 6months or so and finally one day I realized that i was missing something from my life..I was missing one of the best things that ever happened to me...she had moved on figuring I wasn't coming back and I had to fight to get her back and we are back together now...have been for 10 years minus those 6 months...I have picture of my daughter and grandaughter hanging up in my house and I will never take them down..they hang there with the pics of my other children and grandchildren. it is a hard road we must travel..but travel it we do...It's been 7 years now and I still go to see my therapist every week.....I have good days and bad days but I know I will be happy because I know my girls would not want me to be sad. HUGS Ed |
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