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QOTD Quizzes : QOTD..last names
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 Message 1 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231  (Original Message)Sent: 10/4/2008 10:57 PM
What is your opinion of women who don't take their husbands last name when they get married?  Does it bother you?


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From: MSN NicknameKSG111Sent: 10/5/2008 3:42 AM
Hmmm ... not really. I've been divorced for 20 yrs. and still have my married name -- I was married as long as I was single so got use to the sound of it.
Karen

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From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231Sent: 10/5/2008 4:17 AM
I think its up to the indivual. My friend kept her birth name when she got married. She is very independent and this was just another way for her to show it she said. Her dh doesn't care at all. LOL!

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From: MSN NicknameaaaaahadairSent: 10/5/2008 6:01 AM
I see absolutely nothing wrong with keeping your maiden name.
 
As a matter of fact, I have a friend that had leagally changed her name quite a few yrs ago.  She finally decided to settle down and get married and her husband took her last name...as she asked the judge, she had paid for her name and could not understand why her new husband couldn't take that name...the judge agreed and said that there was no law saying the man could not take the woman's last name.  He has a hyphenated last name now.

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 Message 5 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamekiwimum49erSent: 10/5/2008 6:35 AM
It is up to the individual. I was glad to change mine, so that I wouldn't have difficulty spelling it all the time lol


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From: MSN NicknameabsolutelystumpedSent: 10/5/2008 7:14 AM
I see no reason for a woman to give up her identity if she doesn't want to.
 
Hyphenated names are becoming common and probably a good idea from a legal point of view. Easier to sign contracts, etc.
 
I took back my maiden name when my youngest was 15. I  detested the exhole's name.
 

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 Message 7 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameDoe0807Sent: 10/5/2008 1:44 PM
Well, I don't have a problem with it at all.  My husband is the last of his line of the family.  We had 2 daughters.  Out of respect for him, our oldest daughter, who has a profession and her clients know her as our last name, has chosen to keep her last name and when she has children, she will give them, her birth name with a hyphen.  Brian is not offended at all.  He is all about it.  He's an only child and the chances of them having a boy is rare on this side of the family tree.  Dale's brother's had girls as well. 

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 Message 8 of 16 in Discussion 
From: lucySent: 10/5/2008 2:32 PM
Here in PR you keep your last name. So it really don't matter to me any way.

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 Message 9 of 16 in Discussion 
From: BabsSent: 10/5/2008 2:58 PM
I see nothing wrong with it at all.... but I do think it can lead to confusion for people... it is more that society shouldn't make assumptions that just because the last name is different doesn't mean a couple is married or a child is a step child...

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 Message 10 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameCC20010Sent: 10/5/2008 4:16 PM
It doesn't bother me a bit!But I GLADLY took Dh's last name since I couldn't stand my maiden name.I wasn't too wild about the man it was connected to either.

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 Message 11 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamecheryllorraine0Sent: 10/5/2008 6:51 PM
This is a different time... I feel its should be the choice of the women.. Does not mean she loves the man less... Just means she is her own person......... hugs

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 Message 12 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamejacki3Sent: 10/22/2008 1:25 PM
it's up 2 the women...if i got married again, i'd keep my own name..

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 Message 13 of 16 in Discussion 
From: workskipperSent: 10/22/2008 1:34 PM
Son no. 2 took his wife's name when they married.  He said that Kevin Michael sounded better with her Irish last name.  I got a kick out of it but his father wasn't thrilled.

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 Message 14 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN Nicknamebandy789Sent: 10/22/2008 2:27 PM
I use both names my maiden and my married names and now some of my mail comes with both names with a hyphen this can be very confusing to say the least that is one thing one of these days I am going to straighten out once and for all.

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 Message 15 of 16 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknamehendrinekeSent: 10/22/2008 9:55 PM
In Holland the woman keeps her maiden name.She however becomes a double barreled name as her maiden name goes behind her husbands name.So thats the law there and there really is no confusion about it.

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 Message 16 of 16 in Discussion 
From: lindushSent: 10/22/2008 11:38 PM
I never legally changed my name- but I use my husbands last name for business.. It's easier to remember.
 
But I REALLY wonder the reason you asked.... Especially the "does it bother you.".
 
Why would something like that bother anyone? It's really no one else's concern.
 
JMO

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