I often say that dealing with an affair is often worse than dealing with a death. What do you say ? To whom ? There is finality in death. The loss is permanent. We move through it and it is over. An affair is a death, a loss, but it is much more. There is betrayal and a huge unknown future. Our society provides ways to grieve and move through death. Not so with an affair. Often you do not know what to say and others are equally uncomfortable hearing your story. My services focus only on the affair in your life and offer ways for you to break free quickly, with integrity and with minimal pain and destruction. This is your opportunity....really! I also want you to know that the affair is a wonderful opportunity for you, although I would imagine that might be hard for you to believe. But, it is true. Someday you will look back, smile and see the tremendous growth and strength that was set off by your encounter with the affair. I want that for you. In the meantime, use this opportunity to learn about you and your relationship. Be acutely aware of your feelings, your thoughts and how you manage and move through them. The Value of a "coach" It is often helpful to have someone during this time that listens well to you, affirms you, encourages you and points out new paths that you might not see, but which are available and might dramatically change the course of your life. -------------------------------------- |