gelabriar, you are such a kind, caring person. I want to thank you for your concern. I know you are right and I will try harder to remember this. I know he doesn't really mean the bad things he says. But it just hurts at the time he says them. I will take your advice and try to get a little "me" time once in a while. I sure need it sometimes. I hope the pdoc can help him today. He has been off most of his meds since the stroke. I'm hoping after today's visit he can resume taking them. I know he is in bad need of an antidepressant. Take care and thanks again, gelabriar. Love, Rain.