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From: TirelessNetzer  (Original Message)Sent: 12/4/2007 9:57 AM
Janice,
I was in for my monthly checkup and saw your post about Lady Ghostz.  I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.  I've worked with cancer patients for 20 years on and off and it is the hardest thing to go through for friends and family.  The "torn" feeling is common ...wanting the suffering to stop yet not being ready to let go.  Please don't feel guilty about that.  These emotions are difficult enough without throwing BP into the mix.  Please remember to take care of yourself during all this stressful time.  It sounds like your stretching yourself to the limit and with your own condition you really need to take care of yourself too.  So many people Love you, including me.  I'm not sure why Hospice isn't doing more, they used to employ sitters and round the clock nurses as well as grief counseling.  I used to stay with patients during the night so family members could get rest, so I am wondering why they are not doing more.  I know you want to be there too, but you also need your rest.  Please take care.  I have moved many times, but I still have the same phone number and email.  I know you have a lot closer friends but I have a lot of experience in the loss department and  I'm always here too.  Again, I'm so sorry that you are going through this.
Lots of Love
Netzer


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From: MSN NicknameTheButterflyJaniceSent: 12/6/2007 12:08 AM
((((Netzer)))) Thanks so much hun. Your post means alot to me. It's a very hard thing to go through through, and ahrd to watch. I don't know what to feel or not to feel. Some days are good days and some are bad. Some days I guess I'm in total denaial, like nothing is wrong, that all is fine, that all is goign to be fine. Then other days it hits me and i knwo the truth. It's liek I said I'm a yoyo. I"m not goign to go into all of this right now, I just can't. But thansk so much again, it means alot.
Love & hgus!
Butterfly~Janice