onlinewalrus, ((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))) my heart goes out to ya hon. I have been there myself. If ya not up to it, I would stand up, and speek out and let them know ya not up to it and why!!!!!!!!Ya have to take care of yaself hon! And what ya husband said to ya is totaly uncalled for.
Good luck we are here for ya hon. My thoughts and prayers are with ya!
Love Ya!
The Butterfly~Janice