Kim,
I know what you mean.
I learned the hard way!
I am not bipolar, but my next to oldest daughter is.
She is 15 (going on 21).
I would see her crying and ask her what was wrong.
She would fly off the handle like I had never seen!
I eventually learned that she will talk about it when SHE is ready.
I think a lot of people *think* they are helping, when in reality
all they are doing is putting their nose where it doesn't belong.
I admit, there are some people that are genuinely trying to help,
but most are just nosey.
I hope you feel better soon.
Lots of huggles,
mrsgkr