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From: MSN Nicknamefreespirit211  (Original Message)Sent: 7/22/2006 12:45 AM
I just came to the realization that my brother in law(by common law) is a Psychopath.  My old man had lithium toxicity recently, and he just got put on the right meds the other day.  I told his brother this, so what does he do....he calls here, forces my old man into secrecy and then I found out that he was trying to talk him into checking himself into the psych ward for six months.
 
Then today we find out that he had his inheritance tied up jsut recently and that we would have to "ask his permission".  He can eat shi*.  I don't talk to lowlifes.  My shit list in the past month......
 
1.  tried to talk me into calling the cops while he was sick...yes he was refusing help...but it was so ruthless..he was planning to leave him out in the cold with no money...nothing...
 
2.  told me that he gave my old man the money for the engagement ring.
 
3.  told me that my old man was responsible for his Mother's death... he wasn't even there and hse died from complications during heart surgery....sick bastar*.
 
4.  trying to get him to check himself into a nut farm...probably so he could get him declared mentally incompetent so he could scoop right in and steal him blind.  He is in Texas right now at a "STOCK MARKET SEMINAR".  My old man has had fears that he shoudl something ever happen to his dad, that we would be left out in the cold.  Don't want to think about these kind of things, but it is a fact that this will happen someday.  I always thought he was "being too ahrd on him and was probably wrong about him...now I know...
 
That sorry as* no good control freak.  I shut all the phones off and he can go find some other victims.  Screw this shi*.  here I am trying to recover from all of the stress while my old man was manic....now this????????????????
 
tired,
 
freespirit


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From: MSN NicknameTheButterflyJaniceSent: 7/22/2006 5:04 PM
freespirit, I think I would go to the father and tell him what all is going on and see if he won't get ahold of the money that is to go to ya husband and then give his share to ya husband. Or is the farther in low not capiable of handeling money and that's why the brother-in-in has been given the position of trustee of the acount. He sure should have to report to some one how he is spending the money, like a att. or someone. Ya may want to look into that and see what can be done. Wish ya the best of luck.
Butterfly~Janice

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From: MSN Nicknamefreespirit211Sent: 7/22/2006 10:02 PM
Thanks for your reply butterfly...
 
We tried last summer to tell his Father the things he is being put through most impotantly being called stupid...etc.  He says he is not going to get involved.  He is very old, so I told my old man to go around the situation and get an attorney.  You are sooooo right.  We live off of a trust fund and this is just too much;he is forced to talk to him every week to get his weekly money; I have been a tareget this week with him calling my cell phone attacking me verbally....watch my smoke asshol*!!!!
 
The phones calls are not going to be answered and he will probably cut our money off.  It has happened for maybe a day or so twice now in the past three years; I can cover this...but the emotional pain I cannot...it is so abusive;we deserve the right to a peaceful life.  My main concern is the emotional pain that it is causing my old man and how it could worsen his recovery and make it more difficult for him.  He is going to an attorney Monday morning and he is going to try and make it so that we will can deal with a bank rather than him. 
 
Getting a stop put to this contact is necessary as I can't stand by and watch him being called stupid, etc.....
 
He is on the correct dosage now and he is showing lots of signs of great improvements.  A little is enough for me.   think that by the end of the month, he will be fine.  He is able to drive a car now, he's making sense, he's calm, pleasant except for all of this.  I am having people like my parent sign him off with signatures saying that they think he is recovering well...know it's a little overboard...perhaps I need some mental ammuniton to keep myself focused that life is not supposed to be about mental cruelty.
 
Thanks for letting me vent..
 
freespirit