If you've been hurt by a spouse who has cheated on you and had an affair then this might be the most important message you'll ever read...

"Who else wants to discover
 how to survive an affair and save
your marriage or relationship by
ending the pain, healing the wounds
and restoring the trust, even if you
 are the only one who wants to and
 before it's too late?"
                                      

"He'll show you how to end the pain, restore the trust, ask the tough questions, and most importantly, determine exactly how your marriage or relationship can be saved AND how likely it is that an affair will happen again (and what you can do right now to prevent it)..." Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dear Friend, Right now, you are probably feeling as though someone has either punched you in the stomach or stabbed you in the back -- or even both.

You are not alone.

Thousands of couples every single year suffer from the effects of one or both of the spouses having an affair ... cheating, infidelity, adultery, whatever ... it's all the result of an affair.

And it's an awful thing to go through.

It causes unnecessary pain, hurt and depression, and leaves one or both spouses feeling bewildered and wondering what to do.

And the worst part is that the affair wasn't even necessary in the first place ... it was a mistaken attempt on the cheating spouse's part to find something they thought was missing in their existing relationship.

But here's the most important thing you need to understand:  the affair wasn't your fault at all!

That's right -- it's NOT YOUR FAULT.

Sure, you have done some things wrong in your relationship, but you didn't force your spouse to have an affair -- they CHOSE to do it.

And understanding THAT is the key to unlocking the secret to saving your relationship or marriage if it has been devastated by an affair.

At the end of the day, we all just want to be with someone who loves us -- someone who makes us happy, makes us feel needed, gives us the attention we deserve and someone who we can trust without having to think twice.

And that's not too much to ask for -- it's something we all deserve.

Here's what you need to know
 right now to survive an affair...

Dr. Bob Huzienga is a professional counselor who has devoted his life to helping couples survive affairs by quickly getting down to the REAL issues that matter.

In his 23 years of experience working hand-in-hand with couples, he has detected some remarkably consistent patterns that have caused affairs to happen (after all, isn't it important to know WHY it happened in the first place so you can prevent it from happening again?).

He's also perfected several surprisingly simple techniques that have proven to work time and time again at saving relationships and marriages after an affair.

But there's one question that must be asked first before ANY healing can begin.

Before we get to that all-important question though, there are literally dozens of helpful tips that Dr. Huzienga will share with you after you've clicked the button below, including:

• 11 questions to ask your spouse to determine whether your relationship or marriage can really be saved after an affair.

• Why reacting angrily after discovering an affair is exactly the WRONG thing to do (and may actually drive your spouse to have another affair).

• The 7 most destructive types of affairs, what causes them and exactly what you can say and to do overcome each type of affair.

• Why this one type of an affair is almost impossible to overcome (except for this one chance you have at saving your relationship if you act quickly).

• 14 specific things you can say to get through to a spouse who just can't seem to stop having an affair (this is a tough situation, but one that is possible to get through if you know the right things to say).

• How to make your spouse understand the harmful consequences of an affair (and why this one technique can increase the odds of saving your marriage).

• Discover why being in control of your emotions is often the key to surviving an affair (surprisingly, it's much easier than you think).

• Why spouses who THINK they've fallen out of love really haven't and why it sometimes leads them to cheat on you (not surprisingly, their expectations for "being in love" might have been totally unrealistic).

• How an affair can, for some relationships, be the jolt that's needed to reawake the passion and love that's been laying dormant for years (yes, ironically, sometimes an affair can save a relationship by acting as a wakeup call).

• Why the somewhat strange strategy of agreeing with a spouse who has cheated on YOU can actually produce shockingly effective results.

• Why our constant need to feel wanted sometimes drives us to cheat on our spouses.

• Why some relationships are NOT worth saving, even if the cheating spouse swears it'll never happen again.

Having to face an affair in your relationship or marriage can be extremely confusing ... just getting from one day to the next can be an incredible chore.

So that's why what Dr. Huizenga has been able to create is remarkably effective -- it shows you exactly what you can say and do right now to survive an affair.

No more wondering if doing this or that is the right thing ... if saying this or that will make things better or worse ... if thinking this or that makes you a good or bad person, etc.

You are just seconds away from immediate help ...

An affair doesn't have to cause the devastation, hurt and pain that you are feeling right now, there is a better way out.

Grab hold of this lifeline that Dr. Huizenga is throwing to you right now before the tide gets out of control and pulls you out into a sea of unexplained and never-ending emotional pain and heartache.

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