rain my dear dear friend
rose is right he is so upset with his condition he is striking out at himself and at you
you did what every loving wife would do you got help for him
after he receives the help he needs he will be glad you did what you had to do remember, it has only been about 90 days since his stroke so it takes time to adjust and he needs counseling to help him along
i wish i could be with you and give you lots of hugs
i will be praying for you both love you, gelabriar