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| From: rachypooh (Original Message) | Sent: 8/13/2006 6:52 AM | all of a sudden i decided to go to the police station and see what I could do about reporting mark for rape. so on thursday afternnon i went in and asked to speak to a female officer, i had to wait for nearly an hour which was hard, the amount of times i got up to walk out, well i finaly got to talk to someone and i made the initial report but i had to leave for an appointment. I was asked to take my aunty in while she was down here, as she was the first person i told about it so she had to make a statement, but coz she couldnt remember dates she wasnt much help, so when she gets home she may have to take her computer into the police station there and get them to retreive the emails of me telling her about it all. I went in there that night with her but i didnt think i would have to make my formal statement there and then but i did and i got it out of the way which is good i guess, i was so exhausted by the end of it, still trying to get my head around it, some of the details i didnt remember until the night I was telling the police officer about it. i even disociated on her which wasnt really good but she understood i think. i am just now waiting to hear from victim support, and wait for my aunty to do her side of things then we will see what happens. | | |
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Trigger Trigger-Rape rachypooh, I am so very sorry about the rape hun. Rape is a very had thing to deal with. I do hope ya are in T. ya will need lots of it. It's something that will take alot of time and work to get over, it will not happen over night, I know all so well. It took my many years, and lots of talking and work on my part. The last thing ya need to do is to go into denial, and try to pretend it didn't happen or to try and stuff it, and wipe it out of ya mind like it never happened. As it will creap up on ya when ya least expect it and it will be harder then wver to deal with it at that point in time. So the best thing ya can do for yaself is to deal with it right now in the presant, and get it over with, even though it hurts, and is so fresh in ya mind. Ya will go through many differeant feeling just like a loss of someone very dear to ya. I can't iruge ya enough to get T. for yaself hun. Hi9t a pillow, write a letter in ink so it can not be eraced, and then go out side and burn it,and at that time yell and scream, like it's the peson it's self, get the anger and feelings out, also ya can get a stone or small rock (if ya want to draw a face on it) and throw it as far as ya can and scream at it like it's the person.If ya live in town throw it down the street. do anything ya can to get it out of ya system. It will take more then once sweety. but do what ever it takes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ((((Rachypooh)))) wish I was there to give ya one in person. Ya will be in my heart and thoughts. Hugs! Butterfly~Janice | |
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((((((rachypoo)))))) My heart goes out to you and can really understand to some degree what you must be going through.. I am a rape victim too... ITs horrible and Jan gave you some of THE best advice which is to NOT hold it in... I did that had pad the consequences for years... Rape is rape..its bad, ugly and will leave sometimes physical and definitely emotional scars... Therapy and time is the best medicine.... So I do hope you are getting the serious counseling again... Trusting men again will be one of the toughest hurdles. To this day, many years later if a man comes up to me too fast I literally flinch and jump-something I cant seem to remedy..just part of the aftereffects... Hang tuff, we are all here for you... Love and gentle hugs, Cakes |
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Rachypooh, Please listen to Butterfly Jan and Cakes They have given you some very good advice I am very proud of you for reporting the rape even though I know that it took every bit of strength you had love ya gigi |
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