Men! You cant live with them or without them! I am going to vent before I have any "civil" conversation with the man who claims he wants to reconcile with me...I just found out that my husbands virtues of getting back together isnt all about love and "making it work" its about getting my ssdi/ltd income to combine with his to help pay bills. Always about the @#$$% money with him. I am so hurt and pissed....well, I know I have lived in denial for many years about his "agendas" looks like its one more thing to bring to our table when we have out meeting next month. Thank you Journal for letting me vent...this doesnt help with the fact of no sleep last night and what little sleep I did get was nothing but nightmares. GRRRRR...
txcup, vent does not taske the problem away, but helps us release the hurt and pain and the intensity away from inside of us! I'm glad ya came and ranted with us and allowed us to support ya hon! A man can not use ya unless ya allow them to do that! I hope ya can sit and think what do I want to do and what good does it do for me either way. Do what is BEST FOR YA! and no one else!