If your spouse ended up gay would you tell your children? Do you think you could remain friendly with your ex in this situation or do you think on some level you would feel betrayed?
I think the kids would have to be told eventually, or somehow explain the situation depending on age. I would think that if there was any case that would cause a break up in the mariage that would allow us to stay friends then that might be it but I would be pi$$ed if it was something that he suspected or struggled with and then still went ahead and got married and had children
personally I feel it is much harder for men to admit, esp those that are mid 30's or older, younger ones are coming out and fine. I don't think I would hate him for it, and yes the kids should know. I am more open due to have a dd that is gay.
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