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| | From:  Starliteny1 (Original Message) | Sent: 4/6/2006 6:05 AM |
I feel so hurt right now. Today, we had one of our twice annual free classes. I admit, they go over many of the things they have before. Well, after the theory part of the class, before lunch and before the models were scheduled, one of the girls I work with (very young, 21), just decided to leave. Not only did she do that, but she was bragging that she was going to do it, and saying, "I have more important things to do today". Not only was that not fair to anyone else, but I felt that was extremely rude to the instructor. She might have well have spit in her face. Many stylists pay alot of money to attend these type of classes, and I am grateful I could take them for free all this time. I don't care if you're not the type to take classes, or feel you don't need any, the least you could do is act like an adult and sit through it, because they ARE mandatory! The manager did say she would take care of it, whatever that means. One of the things that bothered me more is that she commented on how they couldn't do anything to her, and saying "what are they going to do fire me? and then snickers." See, the manager has been having problems lately. Her husband has been diagnosed with colon cancer, and is not doing well. He probably won't survive. If the manager is not on her toes with certain issues lately, this is why. Before anyone suggests I leave this place, please understand that I feel comfortable here for many reasons. The manager is a dear woman, and I have known her for more years than she was my boss. I couldn't take advantage of anyone like that, and it hurts me to see others doing it. Thanks for letting me vent. Amy |
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To snub your nose at education is very irresponsible. I would hate to have that girl do my hair. You can never get enough new info. I am 44 and have been doing hair for only 12 years and i love to learn new techniques. Im sorry that you are having such a bad time. It is difficult when someone you like and admire is going thru the trama of seeing a loved one battle cancer. Unfortunaltely this is becoming too common. Donna |
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I'm 20 and I would run at any chance to learn something... anything new. Even to just get a review of something I knew already to see someone else do it differently is a learning experience. I constantly watch the other girls in the salon to learn something from them. I don't suggest moving to another salon.. if she's not bothering you and the manager knows something's up then keep to yourself and let her look like a fool. ( Because that's what she looks like.) It sounds like she needs a swift kick in the butt if you know what I mean...and to wake up to reality. She is not the only person on the face of the earth. Everyone has problems, we all do. And some people need to be bluntly told that they are being stupid because otherwise they just don't get it! As much as she annoys you I'd say just let things be, I'm sure your not the only person to notice she's acting like this. Have a great day! Jen |
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Hey girl...hugs to you. If you remember well, my father died of colon cancer at the age of 44. I can understand the stress and pressure that your employer is dealing with on a daily basis. Regarding the 'snot' co-worker....it will come back to kick her in the pants. Don't underestimate your employer at this time. Yes, she's going thru a very difficult time. I remember what my mother went thru. But when something happened or if someone said something that was extremely wrong, she hopped on them like a dog in heat. It's like....she's more bothered by everything going on, but not in the mood to 'let things slide' either. I'm willing to bet that her comment of "what are they going to do fire me?" will come back and bite her in the ass. She's young and immature and doesn't realize the importance of all this education. My prayers are for your boss at this time and my wishes are for that little brat to get fired! haha Take care girl! It will be okay! |
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Thanks for replying. It makes me feel a little better to know I'm not alone or wrong feeling this way. You're all great! |
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Star, I am bothered by that story right along with you. I spent the afternoon today, observing haircut after haircut by a very talented former co-worker, at his salon for free. I wanted to brush up and hopefully learn a thing or two since I am between jobs. I loved every second of it.....I recently quit my job last week (last Friday), I couldn't take it anymore, I was working in Title Insurance. It was so boring and I couldn't stand one of my coworkers. He was a monster! So I have been very proactive in trying to a get back into the field of hair and looking for a spot in a salon. I am in the middle of the hiring process for a salon that is in Fort Lee...called Zohair salon.....you can check it out at www.zohairsalon.com, it is going to be an hour or more commute, but I am hoping it is well worth it. But, while I was the salon today, another stylist thought I must be an amatuer if I am voluntarily sitting through his haircuts........I thought she needs an attitude adjustment. I think for those "who know it all"....then they should be made to teach a class or two. It is more easily said than done, but stylists need to work as a team......and not just in the salons, but as an industry / profession! I see so much competition / jealously/ and crappy attitudes so often.....so that's just my opinion....thanks for letting me vent alittle too....... I really hope your managers husband beats his cancer.....my prayers are with him.......doctors are becoming more experianced with cancer so his chances are better than ever before! |
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Thanks Candy. Well, usually it's the clients who get the wrong idea when they see you watching someone. And you're right, that girl is another one who needs an attitude ajustment. Well, I checked out that website, and I really liked what I saw. The hour commute will be well worth it for someone like you who has a passion, and goes after what you want. One of my co-workers, left the salon recently, and moved about an hour away, and is working at a day spa like the one you're applying to, with similar prices. They hired her as an assistant though, and she is actually making more money. She gets $20.00 tip a person for each shampoo she does! She has been doing hair for 20 years, and at first I thought it would be a step back for her, untill I realized, she is most likely learning from the best (she is the 7 min haircut type). I remember from your previous posts that you are more into creativity, so I'm glad you're getting back into the game at a place where you would be most happy, and I wish you all the best! I didn't notice anything different today, the young girl was still there of course, but I'm taking BabyJ's advise and staying out of it. I'm doing the right thing for myself, and that's all that matters.  |
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7 Minute haircut??? How the hell do you do that??? Donna |
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Lol Donna, I've often asked that question myself! She was surprisingly a good stylist though. My fastest is 15 mins, and she called me slow. I cross check every haircut because I believe in quality over quantity regardless of the price. I hope if she gets her own chair that she could change her habbits, with those prices, people want their money's worth. |
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The only way I think to get a haircut done in 7 minutes or less, would be to use the "Flobee" That device you see on infomercials on CH??? at 3am, it literally sucks the hair into it and cuts it exactly at whatever length you decide by attaching their pre-measured hair guards...... |
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XOXOXOX hugggz and kissez 2 u these ar the things that we deal with in life and we have to accept that some people are just IGNORANT!!!!! just keep your head up and learn all that YOU can some somes its bvest to let people as my grandmother would say "WODDLE IN THEIR S@#T" keep your head up it will be ok |
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Thanks, and you're right. I should just continue to enjoy these classes, and not worry about whether they're manditory. After all, even if they weren't, I would have volunteered. If nothing is done to the girl, it would end up biting her one way or the other. |
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| | | From: Cosomo4 | Sent: 4/15/2006 4:16 AM |
Relax, Its all good this younger genteration is way ahead of its time. She probably just want to see her BoyFriend just like most girls her age. We did the same thing too. Cosmo |
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Actually she is married planning on having a baby soon. But I do see where you're coming from, and I admit that I did goof off a little too much in beauty school, and I might not have taken my first few jobs seriously, but I was lucky to have worked in places that didn't expect much from me. However, I was, and still am fearful of authority, and would never have the nerve to openly defy an employer and sacrifice my only means of survival. My father taught me to have a very strong work ethic. |
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