Your single, be it from divorce, death, or that certain someone just hasn't come along yet. You have a habit, you've done it for years, maybe it's smoking, maybe it's the occasional drink, maybe it's chatting online, or perhaps it's your weekly jaunt to the bingo parlor. You enjoy this "habit", it makes you feel good, or perhaps it's something in your life that is relaxing to you.
Then it happens, someone enters into your life and wants to be a part of it, the problem is, he/she doesn't care for your "habit" and wants you to quit it.
Now, you have never considered doing this for your immediate family or friends, so why should you do it for this person?
It's your choice to make, what would you do? In quitting this habit, are you attempting to compromise, or are you starting to let the "new" person inyour life, start to run your life?
Personally, I think it's the first step in letting the "new" person take over your life.
Nuff said.
Opinions?