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Opinion Forum : Surprises, short term secrets, are they worth it?
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From: MSN NicknameTopmechanic2000  (Original Message)Sent: 9/26/2006 8:05 PM
That special occasion for your significant other is soon arriving. You make a plan, a surprise if you will, to make it memorable for them. This of course will involve making arrangements, on th esly, that can't be explained to the "surprisee". At one point, the surprisee becomes suspicious, perhaps even miffed that certain questions or statements they have aren't addressed to their satisfaction. Now you have a pissed off surprisee on your hands and you have a choice to make. Do you let them stay fuming, perhaps even mad at you and continue with your plan, or do you divulge the surprise planned to get you out of the dog house, ergo, ruining the surprise. What would you do? What do you think? Are surprises worth it?

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From: MSN Nickname_路拢d每G氓m茂帽茫陇路_1Sent: 9/27/2006 5:50 AM
oohhhh you are a slyyyyyyyyyyy puppy!!!!!
Sooooo lets play along and see where this takes us..hehehe

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From: MSN NicknameLadyinKansas2Sent: 9/27/2006 8:08 PM
Hmmmmm.........isnt there a middle ground somewhere?  Like maybe saying......." Hey hon, listen, I am working on something for you BUT I will NOT give you any details as it would simply ruin it for us both.  So have a little faith will you and trust me?" 
   I think surprises are wonderful but ONLY IF the reciever of the surprise likes them also.  I would think, so long as this isnt the first surprise you have pulled, they would KNOW something was up and not be upset with you for things out of the ordinary.  Of course, just be sure there really is a surprise at the end of this journey or the surprise just might be ON YOU.
  I say, IF they enjoy surprises, take the being pissed at you and continue one with the surprise.  The "mad" will go away IF the surprise is really a good one.  So better make it a good one! 

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From: MSN NicknameSilken2004Sent: 9/30/2006 5:19 PM
LOL Top....  Funny you should ask this question 2 days before your beloved's birthday... But for NEXT year, I would strongly recommend that you remind your lil "significant other" there that her birthday is comin' up... raise your eyebrows significantly and walk away....
 
You're never gonna get that woman under control Toppers so ... accept it with your normal good grace and don't let her shake any boxes.... (figuratively speaking)... When we were kids, our mother used to get pretty choked at us trying to find out what special things were goin' on for Christmas and birthdays.... lol...
 
You two... sheesh!
 
Laughing over here in BC
 
Luv 'n hugggs,
 
Silken
 

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From: MSN NicknameratsolosmsnSent: 10/5/2006 12:54 AM
you remain tight lipped, through the discomfort and deceipt that secrecy seems to offer.  If it comes down to it you say somethin like uhh  ya man i was gonna suprise you but the doctor says they cant feed me enuff hormones to be your girlfriend in time for your birthday.  mine you if your a nice guy that may not work...  i'm asshole enuff to be able to play almost any type of face.  Ask yourself will this suprise be worth it in the long run or would she just prefer some non aloof crap and say listen i'm planning somethin big...  and i have to get all my lawyers and ducks in a row, now leave me alone.  LOL  this is fun.ok man, thats where thats at.
 
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