Women notice everything -- and I mean everything . They are masters at detecting details and their meanings. So, even the smallest gesture, when done earnestly and thoughtfully, will not only be appreciated, but can earn you serious bedtime points.
I'm not talking about just helping out around the house. Some men think doing the dishes is the height of romantic expression. While this is a nice thought, it isn't enough. Cleaning up after yourself is pretty much expected of you, not hoped for.
If you really want to impress your lady and make her happy, surprise her by following these tips, which may strike you as remarkably sappy, but their effectiveness is guaranteed. Number 10 Organize a scavenger hunt
When your woman comes home, have a little adventure prepared for her. Place a note somewhere in the house telling her what to do. Have a second note waiting for her at the site of the activity in question, giving her the next instructions, and so on.
Be sure to make the scavenger hunt sexual by telling her to slowly prep herself for a night of sex. For instance, tell her to have a glass of wine in the kitchen, then to moisturize herself in the bathroom, then to put on some music -- you get the idea. Number 9 Tell her she's beautiful
Women will never tire of hearing this. But they'll love it even more if it's unexpected. Call her randomly at work and tell her. Leave a note with this message in her purse, so that she will happen upon it some time in the day. Likewise, send her an e-mail saying you can't wait to see her that night. She'll be so excited to see you, she might just leave work early. Number 8 Write her a hand-written letter
E-mail may be one of the most revolutionary inventions of this generation, but it sucked something very important out of life: the mystery and romanticism of the hand-written letter. So, recreate that feeling and send her one. It could be a love letter, a narrative letter like the ones in authors' anthologies, a confessional letter, or any format that your woman would like. Just don't print it. Number 7 Take her out for lunch
Again, it's the element of surprise that does the trick. Show up unexpectedly at her job and take her to a nice restaurant nearby. You can even bring her lunch and have an impromptu picnic somewhere. You'll be the highlight of her day, especially when her coworkers see that she has such an awesome man. Number 6 Cook her favorite dish
The ladies all agree that a man who knows his way around a kitchen is quite the man. Every guy should know how to prepare some basic dishes and at least one difficult one. Learn how to cook her favorite fare and you've got yourself a guaranteed booty voucher. This could even be as simple as making her favorite coffee or mixing her favorite drink and bringing it to her in her favorite cup or glass. Number 5 Take her on an "official" date
After a long time together, couples tend to get lazy and skimp out on the extravagant thrills of the early stages. This is something many women lament. So bring back that lost excitement and take her on a very nice date. Bonus points if you take her to a fancy place where dress is formal (you know women love dressing up). Or you can try recreating your first date to the letter. To make it really official, send her a formal invitation by snail mail. Number 4 Buy her a token present
One day, for no reason, show up with a thoughtful little gift. And I'm not talking about a generic teddy bear, or other unimaginative stock gifts. Give her something with meaning that represents something for her. You will get bonus points if it's something she actually needs, but never told you about or barely mentioned in passing. This could be as simple as a blow dryer or a new purse. Number 3 Dance with her
Remind her how well you can move your body by dancing with her out of the blue. It can be anywhere: in the living room with some nice music, in the halls of a building when no one's around, even in the park. Wherever it is, just do it. She'll feel like she's in a movie, and will probably be eager to see you move in other ways Number 2 Give her a flower
Don't wait for Valentine's Day or her birthday. Get her one flower today, just to make her feel appreciated and adorn her place. Make sure to be original, picking one that she is not used to receiving, like a single rose that was dyed or an orchid. Under no circumstances should you give her a cactus and pretend it's an exotic plant. Number 1 Pamper her
When she comes home from a tough day at work, have a hot bubble bath with candles and chocolate waiting for her, and join her inside. You can also give her a foot massage. Better yet, give her a full-body one. At bedtime, treat her to the best oral sex she's ever received. Believe me; she'll know how to thank you. they're the ones that countIn the end, it's the little things you do that she'll remember most fondly; little things like having a caricature made of the two of you or choosing her over Monday Night Football. You can even work your own timing into it, doing this during the off-season, or when two teams you don't enjoy watching are playing. It may seem sappy to you, but you'll get it back in spades. |
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