Coco... Hello my dear friend.... Thank you for sending me off on what turned out to be a VERY interesting and informative search with your request... I've spent a very nice hour learning a lot and hoping to share some of the better articles with you...
It's strange how during my search, I was also thinking about the times in my life when I've had sexy dreams and now that I think about it, the majority have been when I have ended a relationship with a significant other... Or sometimes, when I am thinking about ending one... Those dreams are alive with high emotions but unfortunately, not the "feel good" kind... Instead, even tho' I am not one to cry easily, I will wake up with tears streaming and feeling deeply sad...
I also think that if one has a history of having nightmares (as I suffered throughout my childhood... duh.. on second thought... maybe that WAS my childhood...LOL), it becomes mandatory to try to control your dreaming. I learned through the years that most of the time, I could make myself wake up before things got too horrible or too emotional...
I quite enjoyed reading some of these articles and hope that you will too. Thank you for letting me share your interesting question... May all of your dreams be beautiful!!!!
Luv & hugggs,