Dream Symbols - Betrayal and Infidelity
Dreams of adultery and infidelity can occur when the dreamer is involved in any type of relationship but may be more commmon when the relationship is troubled. Fear, jealousy and insecurity may be things that the dreamer is aware of in waking life. These feelings may be hidden and the subconscious mind is using the dream as a way of making the dreamer aware of them. Sometimes there is a genuine possibility that a partner is cheating in waking life. The dreamer may be so infatutuated in a relationship that they subconciously fear that something will destroy it.
Dreaming of committing adultery may be an indication of a desire for a spicier sex life. Perhaps your marriage or relationship needs work in this area. Some researchers say that it is normal for people to be tempted toward infidelity. Your dream may be a way of safely releasing that temptation. Dreaming of being betrayed by your partner may symbolize feelings that you are neglecting your partner's emotional needs and worry that they will seek fulfillment elswhere. You may have reason to suspect that your partner is cheating in waking life and your dream may be telling you that it's time to confront the issue.
Keep in mind that the unconscious speaks in symbols and the message may not be about a relationship in the romantic sense at all! Your dream may be referring to a job, project or other association that has become stale or insecure.
If these dreams recur over a period of time, you may want to talk with your partner. While certain levels of jealousy are normal in a relationship, it can also escalate to an unhealthy level. Take a look at whether a legitimate reason may be causing these feelings or whether your fears are unfounded. Good communication is critical to healthy long term relationships, so have a "heart to heart" talk with your sweetheart often.
May all your dreams come true!