Sexual role playing is not just stuff of film and novels. In fact sexual role playing is an excellent way to rev up your sex life and get to know your partner even better. Sexual role playing allows us to delve into our imagination and act out a scenario that may never happen in real life. As we expand our imagination, we also expand our libido at the same time. Exploring the why, where, and when of sexual role playing will give us a better understanding of how to incorporate this type of sex into our lives.
You may wonder why is it necessary to role play with your partner for a better sex life. Of course it is possible to have a great sex life without role playing, but this can enhance the love life for many people. Being allowed to assume roles that you normally can’t assume in your day to day lives can be an enormous turn on. You can also get the chance to explore power dimensions in your own relationships. You can switch on and off being the more dominate character to switch up the sex. If the woman is usually the sexual aggressor, you could try having the man take the role as the “teacher�?to the “student�?or something along those lines. Role playing can also bond you to your partner by giving you a special secret and some fun memories to boot. It is a way to bring your creative side to the bedroom and you can go as far as you want with it including themes, props, settings, and costumes.
You may choose to role play in any part of your house, but you can also take the role playing out of your house. For instance you could meet up like strangers in a bar or get a hotel room for some faux escort play. Almost any location outside your home can lend for the backdrop of role playing that will later be commenced sexually in the privacy of your home. Inside your home you also have the option of decorating or rearranging the furniture to give you the feel of a different location. Giving your house a theme for the night is a fun way to feel like you are in another location.
You can role play whenever you feel like. Sometimes you don't even need any elaborate costumes or decor to take on characters. It can even happen quite naturally during sex if you begin to speak in an accent or pretend to be someone else. Many times just putting on this little act in bed can be enough to turn each other on. Taking time to prepare for the role play can also be a lot of fun, especially if one partner tries to surprise the other one. Putting that kind of time and effort into your love making can make for an even richer experience. Letting your partner know that you want to please them and be creative can be even more special than just an average night between the sheets. Take the opportunity to breach this with your partner and once you get in the swings of things you are bound to have an even richer sex life right away.