SEXUAL RISK-TAKING

"On average, half your life is going to be in this single and dating state, and this is a big change from the 1950s," says Edward Laumann, the project's lead author and an expert in the sociology of sexuality.

Today's solo artists are kicking up their heels and relishing their freedom, independence and ability to be spontaneous.

"The additional free time they have and the social network they can cultivate through work and through friends make for all kinds of interesting things to do as a single person," Spiwak said.

"Many of the singles I know, while they would like to be in a relationship, they're also enjoying the time they have to cultivate their interests and to grow as people."

Contractor Ronald Boon said being in a couple isn't much of a priority for most males, especially those under 30.

'Have fun'

"It's easier for guys just to romp around and have fun," he said. "We just want to be free to do our thing without anyone getting on our case. When all your buddies with girlfriends are high-fiving you because you're a bachelor, I figure you gotta be doing something right."

After a series of failed relationships, Marissa, a 25-year-old waitress, says she prefers being single at this point because it is "way less hassle. A lot of guys out there want their girlfriends to be something they're not. As the single chick, if people don't like how I dress or the music I listen to, who cares?"

For men and women still learning to embrace the single life, Spiwak suggests they get out and try new activities.

After all, the world is their oyster.

She suggests taking pottery, dance or yoga classes, a kick-boxing lesson or joining an outdoor adventure club.

Whatever you do, Spiwak says singledom is a social and personal brass ring that should be taken advantage of -- not frowned upon.

"Focus on what you do have in your life rather than what you don't have," she said. "It's the love you've already got that matters most."