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The influence of the planets may be confusing as on the one hand you feel full of confidence, but on the other you are unusually lacking in confidence about all kinds of financial matters. In fact you have good reason to feel confident about your relationships and you should trust your instincts in relation to money.
You are known as having a stubborn streak and it is likely that this will get in the way of you listening to some valuable advice. Even though the advice is simply that you should give yourself a little more credit! It may be hard, but now is not a good time for you to overindulge. Your Extended December Forecast
Personal Power
Everything seems easier when you are on home turf. Therefore, even though you often have the urge to travel, you may want to remain close to home this month and take life as it comes instead of charging out there to confront it. This will help you avoid a lot of stress that comes when you mingle with lots of people you don’t know, face difficult weather or travel conditions, and generally upset your diet and emotional balance.
If you must travel for either work or pleasure, make sure you have plans well together ahead of time. Remember to put lotions, etc. in those 3 ounce bottles the airlines require these days. Think about what clothing you will need as soon as you arrive at your destination, such as coat and gloves or shorts and sandals. Pack those items in a carry-on bag so you can change in the airport or train station.
The theme of the above is to maximize the power you have in all situations without losing dignity or diplomacy. The last thing you need on the 5th and 11th is an argument. Ditto the rest of the month. What works better is to tune in on your luck on the 8th, 19th and 21st. Take life as it comes, and it will bring you what you desire.
The Money Angle
Demands on your cash require you to establish control early and maintain it without seeming like Scrooge. Tough balance to maintain. However, you can do it by using three simple tactics: first, assess your own desires early this month and make sure you get what you need. If you simply must see the football game on Dec. 25, make that clear way in advance, and provide money for movie tickets for anyone who doesn’t want to watch with you.
Second, consider how your busy schedule meshes with everyone else’s and make allowances for them as you go along. Do attend your kids’ holiday pageant, even if it means missing something organized by adult friends.
Third, let the females in your life handle the social details. You don’t have to have your thumb on every decision. Agree to go along with just about everything this month, and have your wardrobe ready for various social events.
Family
Even pleasant surprises can rattle your cage now. Hopefully your intuition is tuned up so you can see ahead and plan for almost every contingency. The nature of families, though, is to bring the unusual into your life just when you least expect it. For your own well-being and the benefit of the people around you, avoid dropping surprises on them.
One winning kind of surprise is a treasure hunt. Each day you can provide hints to each household member about a special little treasure. Use your own creativity to embellish this idea.
The 12th and 29th are two days when you really need to be on your toes to provide creative guidance for others. Have an activity ready if you need something to keep everyone busy. Be sure to feed the hungry on time or even a little bit early.
Friends
A female friend may experience some difficulties where her responsibilities at work are concerned. If you offer any assistance, be sure you want to responsibility that may come along with the work. In addition, be sure to provide an abundance of optimism along with a small amount of money to grease the wheels.
Although you think you are too busy to squeeze in one more activity, plan to spend some quality time with a friend who faces emotional hardship around the 6th or 16th. When the tears flow, be ready with tissues and sympathy. You won’t need to fix anything. Just be present and listen to the story. Your friend can figure out what to do, especially since you think it is important enough to pay attention.
Health
If you are female, you may want to wear dresses that show off your beautiful legs and knees. If you are a guy, not so much this month. Either way, you need to take care to protect your knees from injury. Two things instantly come to mind: the ice on the driveway in Minneapolis in December, and the speed limit in stairwells at work or at home. Hint: slow down for conditions, including emotional stress or work pressures!
Color therapy may help alleviate feelings of sadness during this month of shorter days. You can add bright colors to your wardrobe, and you can enhance your home or work environment with twinkly lights that don’t run up the electrical bill very much.
Conflicts and How to Handle Them
It would be easy for you to fall into an “US against THEM�pattern of thinking this month. Don’t let that happen! Instead, follow these suggestions for smoother interpersonal relationship: Try to understand the other person’s point of view. This may require an open conversation and you may not like everything you hear, but listen anyway.
Evaluate how much you actually care about the discussion, aside from personal pride. Will you still care a week from now? A month from now? If not, then why make a big deal about it now? If you will still care later, then the other person deserves to understand your point of view. Explain why the principle is important, over and above the actual details of the argument.
Finally, change the subject if the discussion becomes too heated. Agree to discuss it again later, but refuse to be drawn into escalating the problem if you can wait to discover a solution.
Some situations have to be handled on the spot and these tactics will not work. In those cases, do what you must, and only what you must, to resolve the situation.
Romance
You and romance are on the same page now. Refine your assertive tactics and you will have smooth sailing through December and into the New Year. In addition, you accumulate good karma along the way!
Love grows on the 28th. See your weekly romance tips for more information.
Monthly Star Ratings
Love 4
Money 4
Mood 3
Style 4
Monthly Compatibility Signs
Love: Taurus
Friendship: Capricorn
Monthly Numbers
8, 22, 25, 34, 37, 46
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