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People will be looking to you for advice throughout this month. Initially, you may be flattered, but as the month wears on you may find yourself tiring of the lack of personal space. A weekend away with a loved one after the 20th is exactly what you need to boost your mood.
No matter how frustrated you become it is important that you maintain a friendly approach at all times this month. People will get the hint eventually that you are as much in need of a rest as they are. Love begins to hot up significantly around the 26th of the month! Your Extended December Forecast
Personal Power
This month you gain the most strength from any activity that requires you to think. All your social and work situations run more smoothly when you put in some time beforehand to think through what you have in the way of assignments and duties. Once you get in this rhythm, you find that each day brings joy to you and enhances all of your relationships.
The first is a good time to begin your social planning. On the 13th and 18th, be prepared to make adjustments to plans you thought were foolproof. The challenge on the 24th is to come across as calm, cool and collected after you have gotten yourself, your partner, and everyone else ready. Hint: go for basic, wrinkle resistant clothing for everyone.
The previous paragraph suggests that you will feel better if you are in charge, or at least when you have a lot of input into what each person will do. You can employ a sharp edge to your voice or you can choose to take a philosophical approach to your creative efforts. Basically, your power comes from deep within you, so spend some time in that place each morning to get centered.
The Money Angle
Use your practical skills to manage financial matters now. Yes, it’s easy to suggest that you reduce spending and waste, and that is sometimes difficult to accomplish. When you do meditate or focus each morning, you prepare a list of things to accomplish and you avoid letting other people draw you away from your goals.
One shopping tactic that works well for many people is to announce to the sales person the dollar amount you intend to spend. That way a smart person will show you items within or at least close to your price range. You may even be startled to find that the items you like best are quite reasonably priced!
Another hint: this year there will be lots of high quality items on sale. Shop the sales, and at least look at what’s on the discounted rack. Value doesn’t have to mean top dollar!
Family
Get centered each morning. Oh, that was mentioned already? Well, do it! Where family is concerned, you find yourself in the pivotal position often enough that you need your power base sturdy and consistent. Aside from social obligations outside the home, you can keep every day as simple as you want, or you can complicate your life with plans that no one can manage. Your choice.
If you have small children, line up their favorite baby sitters well in advance. Provide special treats that are nutritionally sound, and then let them eat what they want. Pay sitters extra or provide a holiday bonus to let them know they are truly appreciated.
Get packages sent early to those who live far away. This not only insures that they will arrive on time, it assures that you will experience the least stress possible. Along the way, find one item that is just for you.
Friends
Check the newspaper for local events that you and a friend can attend. There may be special movies, events at the mall, or sales that the two of you can enjoy without anyone else to slow you down. Get together for coffee early in the day when you are both relaxed.
When you can, invite friends to social events. When that doesn’t work, don’t worry about it. There is one special person with whom you have a long-standing relationship, or who seems to have a karmic connection. Give this relationship a little extra attention to fulfill your side of the karmic duty. You may not even know why you do this, it simply feels right.
Health
Let your intuition guide your health decisions now. If a problem arises, take care of it soon to keep it simple. Hopefully you have scheduled dental and physical checkups early so you don’t have them hanging over your head now.
Let your intuition guide your food choices too. Of course, you have to listen when your inner voice suggests moderation or steers you away form holiday treats you don’t really need. When in doubt, know that less is usually better. The one exception: eat before you go to a big party. At home you know you can have low carbohydrate foods and less fat, and then feel righteous as you sample the delectable treats at the party.
Conflicts and How to Handle Them
From the beginning of the month, most conflicts are hidden or secret. Whereas you usually understand the ebb and flow of feelings at home and at work, now you have to really struggle to figure out what’s happening. The best tool in your bag in the work environment is intuition. You may not think so, but your gut responses will be as close to the target as any thought you may entertain. Only when you have these insights can you talk about problems and approach solutions.
At home you find that practical discussions work better. You have the time and space to sit down and let each person tell you what they need and why they are happy or not so happy. After you have heard what everyone has to say, you can apply your psychic senses and practical intelligence to figure out solutions.
Okay, it sounds like both you and your partner have to be two dynamite negotiators this month. Make that your assignment: negotiate everything. Forget making demands. Forget your usual management or parenting style. Other people may think you have lost your mind around the 10th, but you will find that they are happy in the end.
Romance
Keep romance close to home this month. Avoid events where one of you will feel needlessly uncomfortable. Yes, attend the holiday parties at work. Other than that, plan intimate meals at home with your favorite foods �?foods that can be prepared quickly or ahead of time.
Passion blossoms around the 12th. See your weekly romance tips for more information.
Monthly Star Ratings
Love 4
Money 2
Mood 5
Style 2
Monthly Compatibility Signs
Love: Gemini
Friendship: Aries
Monthly Numbers
6, 14, 23, 30, 34, 41
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