December - Virgo

 

 

You can be very territorial at times and sometimes this can work against you. If you are struggling let someone else help you out. Relatives will be important this month and you may need to act a mediator. Financially, you need to look more closely as your plans for next year.

Opening your heart to someone new will bring a special friendship into your life and it may even open the door to something more. Don't feel guilty about the assistance you receive as this is no more than you deserve, let others pamper you for a change!

 

Your Extended December Forecast

Personal Power

Your power builds on responsibility and authority. This means that this month you need to take aim at fulfilling all your assigned responsibilities and cheerfully accept new ones. Holidays are a tough time to be doing this, especially if you have travel or other social obligations planned. Still, in the long run, you will come out ahead.

Around the 6th you find out what is expected of you. Be sure to ask questions to make sure you understand your assignments. Your intuition kicks in during the conversation, and that is the best time to bring up concerns. That way you have a destination and a map of how to get there.

Then your psychic senses let you know who will help and who will not. You can avoid a lot of trouble if you choose the people in whom to confide. On the 18th you get an even subtler sense of what’s happening. Be above board in all your dealings, and don’t hide your activities. On the other hand, don’t clobber people with your ideas either. Take the middle path of diplomacy. By the 26th you find yourself well positioned to accept credit for what you have accomplished.

The Money Angle

It’s time to get creative in the financial department. You need to make less cash go a long way this holiday season. This is probably not the year to go all out on new clothes, fancy jewelry, or new cars for all the drivers in your family. Instead, you can add color to your basic black and borrow grandma’s heirloom necklace or Grandpa’s gold watch.

Use your creative talents to decorate hearth and home with whatever you have on hand. Tone down expensive outdoor decorations. Plan afternoon parties that don’t require expensive food and drinks. In short, trim your budget everywhere you can. You will actually be surprised how successful you can be on a shoestring!

All that said, you may want to seek professional advice about investments. You have some options to consider before you pay income tax, and it is possible that there may be some surprise influx of money �?something you do not expect �?around the 16th. Make the most of this windfall.

Family

Plan on lots of action in your household this month. You and at least two other people get your heads together to plan for the holidays and you have input from more people who are pretty tense. To relieve stress, get everyone together to make a basic plan, perhaps on the 3rd or before. Toss around everyone’s ideas before you start to make decisions. Everyone wins if you can accommodate each person is some way. No one wants ot feel left out.

If family members are invited to parties at work, you may want to mix up who goes along for the ride. If kids are welcome, you may want to take one with you to each event. Plans a fun activity for anyone who doesn’t go.

The 16th is a day to make sure you manage so no one feels sad or lonely. Consider including the entire family in a dinner or evening activity that day.

Friends

Creative activities with friends include indoor or outdoor sports, remodeling, and practical contests to see who can provide the best dish at your international buffet. Even though you issue an open invitation with no holds barred, you may need to coordinate who brings entrees, vegetables, snacks, and dessert!

To handle the unexpected, have a few items on hand to feed a huge crowd. Stock up on paper plates and plastic cups so you can feed the masses. Organize extra folding chairs ahead of time. In short, plan for a big turnout of hungry folks. Be ready to deal with babies and children. Announce the dress code and keep it basic for relaxed fun.

Health

You want to sail right through the winter holiday season without so much as even a cold, so begin your preparations early. Make sure you have the right footwear for winter conditions so you don’t slip on wet walkways. Make sure people don’t track water onto slippery indoor surfaces too. Trim fats and carbohydrates out of your diet so you can indulge at parties.

Be sure to get adequate rest. Extra stressors at this time of year will be no problem if you nap, rest your eyes periodically, and resist the temptation to stay up until all hours when you need to be at work early the next day.

Conflicts and How to Handle Them

Admit it. You want things done your way. However, you also have to admit that your partner and other people have their own needs and desires. If you are open to the psychic vibes around you, you can actually make it seem like you want exactly what they want, at least part of the time.

Be prepared to be flexible in almost every way. Then when you have demands that must be met, you will not seem to be demanding every moment of every day. Let go of any expectations of the perfect holiday season without a single glitch. First of all, that never happens. Second, you wouldn’t be happy if you couldn’t step in and save the day like Superman or Superwoman!

This year you discover that you can use emotional flow to your advantage. Act as the first responder to any crisis you observe. Use your intuition to determine how to handle situations that arise on the 5th, 12th, 22nd, or 26th. Your light touch and instant understanding soothe ragged nerves and relax everyone else. You can rest later knowing you have done your bit to make social events happy and healthy.

Romance

With just a little effort, you can have delightfully romantic moments without tedious preparations and extravagant expense. For example, buy that special wrapping paper when you see it, not two minutes before you have to give the gift. Choose unusual gifts that show you care in all the little ways.

Best days are the 5th and 27th. See your weekly romance tips for more information.


Monthly Star Ratings
Love 2
Money 3
Mood 4
Style 4


Monthly Compatibility Signs
Love: Sagittarius
Friendship: Gemini


Monthly Numbers
3, 10, 14, 28, 35, 41