You are a true lover of God Prem! I understand your background and traditions and why your parents are keeping the brakes on you. I gather you are a teenager? Actually I do remember asking you that question, many moons ago now....saying you seemed much older than what you said you were. You write with much depth and wisdom for a teenager. YOu write like an old soul who has the gift of knowledge much beyond your human years.
Could it be that you are in love with God, your yearning to be free being in The Presence makes you feel being held. This is quite common feeling among lovers of God/Krishna. Wanting to merge with our God and live in this Sanctum for ever and ever.
That's what life is all about....wanting to return to this Oneness with God/Krishna.
Your boyfriend who lives in another town. Do you see him often? I understand your situation of being closely match by your parents at all times. Are you in love fully and surely with him, rather than the idea of having a mysterious lover who might take you away from your family some day in the near future, even to another country. Just asking these questions for myself.
I do hope I do not offend by asking you these questions. You seem to be so depressed that I am trying to see how I can be of some assistance in connecting with you on the level you are writing. You are very open and sharing willing. I do appreciate this about you.
Thank you so much for bringing us (me) into your world Prem.
May you feel Krishna always in your heart.
Pearl