The Magic-Bullet for Healing Broken Hearts and Lives

 

Spiritual Medium, Teacher and Grief Counselor
SUSAN K. SANDERFORD
Author of "Conversations With Mama"

 

As I do before every reading we do and every program we present, I d like to begin with a prayer.

Father/Mother God,
We thank you for this Divine Group of Beings that have gathered here this evening to learn and grow and heal.

We ask that you open our hearts to Your Love, which heals and brings peace to weary hearts.

Bless our time together and speak to each of us in a unique way so that we may come to remember the great beings that we were created to BE.

Thank You for your guidance and help. We Pray this in the name of the Christ, Amen.



I ve promised a lot tonight; that  silver bullet  that will cure all hurts, grief and broken hearts. That one thing that will attract into your life the kind of love you have been searching for.

We have come here this evening to share with you the Spirit of Love.

Have you ever found yourself wondering  What is Love?  You are the most powerful expression of Love that has been created. You were created by God to BE and express Divine Love.

You might be saying to yourself now,  Well I sure don t feel LOVE in my life!  And perhaps you don t, but that doesn t change the fact that you are LOVE. Most of us only have the experience of imperfect human love.

Human love is something we try to get from other people. Human love is very needy. That is why we are always seeking for that perfect partner, or, why we are angry at our partners or parents because we don t feel loved. It s because we think we need love from them to feel OK in our lives.

Likely our idea of love is something totally different than the love that God intended.

Ten years ago I decided to ask God to  Show me what Love is!  That was probably the most powerful question I have ever dared to ask the Divine. 

At that time in my life I was in a miserable marriage. After 15-years, I made the upsetting discovery that what I was sharing with my husband was not really love. DUH! How slow we are at times in getting to the truth!

It was an illusion of love. Thus, came my prayer to God to  Show me what is Love.  I m not sure what I was expecting from God by asking that question. It was exactly a year later that God led Milt into my life. Milt and I had worked together for 5 months with not a clue as to what spirit was up to.

It was on January 16, 1995, I realized that God had brought Milt into my life. I was totally unprepared for the answer to prayer that day.

As we sat talking at a business lunch, I made the comment to Milt that when he was away on Christmas vacation the prior month, which was the first time I had ever missed anyone in my entire life.

The moment those words came out of my mouth, it was like a blindfold had been ripped from my eyes. It was like I was punched in the stomach. I couldn t breath, and the words came blaring through my mind,  This is what Love is.

I was so dumbfounded at the moment and not knowing what to do with this, I took off for home to deal with this revelation.  As soon as I reached home I grabbed my Bible and turned to the  Love Chapter,  I Cor. 13&

I began to read:

 Love is Patient, Love is Kind
 It does not envy, It does not boast, It is not rude
It is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered &

And as I read on down the list, each attribute I read described Milt

It was when I got to the part that said  Without Love you are nothing!  came the realization that God had brought Milt into my life to demonstrate to me God s Love.

The next day I announced to Milt that  God brought you into my life so I would know what love is!  

His soft reply,  I know. 

So now we celebrate our togetherness on January 16th and January 17th.  The 16th, when I discovered our love, and the 17th, when I told Milt he loved me! God brought a human being into my life to demonstrate spiritual and unconditional Love.

Even though I was raised in the church, this was literally the first time in my life I saw God in another person. Love oozed from Milt. Not by what he did or said, but by just being in his presence.

Yes, he acted and did loving things. But, he lived a life of giving love with no thought of what he was going to get out of it. It was freely given to all! It was then that I realized that what I saw in Milt was what I wanted to BE, so I could give that gift of Love to others.

I can t deny that this magnificent love with which I ve been blessed has been so very instrumental to my healing, happiness and the development of my mediumship gift. Because it has been true  Without Love I am nothing.

Another thing I noticed about Milt was that he was able to give Love because he truly loved himself. I knew then that I had to become the one that LOVED myself unconditionally first, before I could give unconditional love to others. This understanding wasn't a Magic Bullet in freeing my spirit to soar!

The cure for all ills, that thing that will bring happiness, healing and contentment into your life, understands the need to love and accept YOURSELF unconditionally -- (perceived) warts and all -- and then making it happen.

I invited Divine Spirit into my life to heal me so that I could become Love.

Spirit then began removing the things that block that unconditional SELF-love from taking root and finally blooming into the truth and acceptance of who and what I AM.

It has been a long and sometimes rough road but God keep His promise when I asked. And the discovery was that  I AM LOVE!  And so are you!

You are NOT what you see in the mirror.

You are NOT the problems you struggle with daily.

You are NOT what others in your early years have caused you to think you are by their judgmental and unloving ways.

You are an amazing soul, expansive, wise, beautiful, and loving. That is your birthright as a child of the Creator. You are a thought of God -- an extension of God -- and as the saying goes,  God don t make no junk!! 

You ve just forgotten that fact -- and we are here to remind you of who you are and where you came from -- and where we will all return one day!

Wrap your mind around that truth -- and you will be amazed how quickly your heart will mend, how quickly true love will vibrate toward you. With Spirit s help, heal self, love self and the rest of your journey here on earth will be the joy you ve been looking for.

We know self-love is easy to achieve, but be daring enough to ask God that simple question.  What is LOVE?  and  Help me to become love.  You will be amazed at what unfolds!

Also be aware that God's Love may flow to you in different forms.

It may not come in another person, or it could come through a vision. It may be shown with an experience of feeling the presence of God's Love around you, or even through nature, or animals. Just be open to experience learning about God's Love in anyway He chooses to show you.

 

 

 

Twin flames are aspects of your self that have separated from each other in spirit to find each other on the earth plane. When you find your twin flame, it is like finding a part of yourself.

However, not all twin flames come to the earth at the same time. One may stay on the other side to act as a guide.

 

Soul Mates are those that travel in the same soul group. You will have spent many lifetimes together, playing different roles to help each other grow.

 

Soul Mates can also be your Parents, friends, or your children.

 

Some soul mates can be adversaries who are helping your soul to grow by being button pushers.

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Susan's book 'Conversations with Mama! (If This Is Heaven Why Are the Kids Still Calling?),  is co-authored with her husband, Milt, and shares the incredible story of Susan's initiation into mediumship. I hope you will check it out!

For more on Susan Sanderford, her book and her work, please visit her web site at: http://www.susansanderford.com