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From: USMmom  (Original Message)Sent: 10/4/2004 10:54 AM
So many times I have come to the people in this community for prayer requests.  I only continue to do so because your prayers have worked.  I have even been made fun of in the MSN chatroom because of asking for prayer requests......so I am always afraid......but I don't care......you find out who the real friends are I guess......or the ones that have compassion......
 
I received email on an update on my brother in law.  4 yrs ago last month he had kidney cancer, 3 months after my girls's dad........his brother........This is a man that I have admired his love for his family, for life, for nature, for his wife.  He retired in MO, has a place in Seattle where his daughter lives and a place in Alaska.  A few weeks ago they found out by exam that he has recurrent cancer to his lung, adrenal gland and leg to bone......they did operation to put a pin in his leg .......we had hopes.....
 
Today I see update and was afraid to open it.....Thank goodness that I was talking to knight.......I went to pieces and after talking with him.......I am better........
 
The news is not good........it has went to his brain.  As my sister in law said......after much discussion, crying and a few bad jokes........they are coping......He had two options......1......to just do nothing and let him go peacefully and only have about a month........2......to start some radiation therapy to the more aggressive cancer in the brain and leg........He started the radiation on last Monday and will end October 11th.  They will then know more what to proceed.....this is only to help ensure a better quality of life.  He is not ready to give in and wants to fight. 
 
I am the one that is always strong for everyone but, I get tired and I need prayers to know what to do and say.  My  youngest daughter is taking this hard and my oldest handles things differently with a more tough exterior.  But with their dad having the cancer 4 yrs ago also......they are concerned.  He has chest x-rays and scans every 3 months and now every 6.......his last check up they saw some clouding around his bladder and did cystoscopy in the office and said things were fine.  With this news of his brother.......We are concerned......
 
I will have to show him the email Tuesday and I am not looking foward to doing this......
 
So prayers all the way around would be greatly appreciated.....for those of you who responded to the message on yahoo........ty so much........and you know who you are.........I am going to pray for the quality of life that Arlan is hoping to have.........and for his family. 

I thank each of you in advance of reading this........there doesn't have to be any words........just a prayer.....May God give you the peace that surpasses all understanding........love ya'll...........Kay
 


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From: MSN Nicknametama®a_Sent: 10/4/2004 11:24 AM
 

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From: MSN Nicknamebirdie_2004Sent: 10/4/2004 7:03 PM
 

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From: MSN NicknameJanner-BakerSent: 10/4/2004 9:31 PM
AWW KAY, I AM CROSSING MY FINGERS & MY LEGS FOR YOU.
BEST WISHES TO ARLAN
                                          

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From: MSN Nickname®niceguy�?/nobr>Sent: 10/4/2004 10:57 PM
Praying That His Love And His Presence...

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From: _white__knight__Sent: 10/5/2004 11:08 AM
My Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family  always..........
 
                   

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From: MSN NicknameMichael_WilliamSent: 10/6/2004 5:16 AM
 
Kay - we'll be praying for that miracle your brother-in-law and his family so desperately need...please keep us posted...

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From: USMmomSent: 10/6/2004 4:27 PM
 
 
Blessings to everyone that replied.......There are no miracles in his case but, there is prayer for him to have the quality of life.......He is not focusing on the end......just taking it one day at a time.......He has a love of nature, love of life and love of family.......He has a home in Alaska that they go to during the Summer months in Missouri......here are a few of the pics I have.......i hope they turn out.....but never know with this MSN or whatever it is.......you see the beauty in these pics......it gives me comfort in knowing he is gonna be one with it..........where he wants to be.......ty again for all your support......it has helped me to help my family cope with it.......Some people don't get to say goodbye.......the only good thing that comes out of cancer is the opportunity to finalize and say goodbye......Love ya'll dearly.........Kay
 
See the moose..............??????
 
 
See the Bald Eagle in their garden?  The other picture is the bluff behind their house..........hope they turn out

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From: MSN Nickname®niceguy�?/nobr>Sent: 10/6/2004 11:24 PM
Lovely pictures, Kay!

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From: USMmomSent: 10/8/2004 9:44 PM
thank you Joe........I never got to go to Alaska to see it.......but love the pics............not feeling great have flu.......so hope u stay well.......and ty for always posting to my post.......God Bless.......love ya......Kay

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From: USMmomSent: 10/13/2004 6:26 AM
Update as I know it on my brother in law.......He finished his radiation to the tumors that were the worst.......In the brain and his leg.......he got good reports on the treatments and was to leave today for the University of Columbia Medical Center to see the outcome in more detail.....He sounded like his old self........I even told him I needed more pics to share of Alaska.........that made him happy......I talked with my doc today about it......and he said not to give up......this type of cancer even when it metastasizes isn't the same in everyone.......not to give up........so.......Just wanted to say thank you for your postings.....and may God Bless ya ..............love ya'll.........Kay

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