I have noticed tension from time to time in the room between members and have seen backbiting and nastiness in general toward our peers.  I personally have seen some who avoid the room altogether due to unresolved issues.  I think this is natural when you have a large group of individuals with varied lifestyles, sensitivities, and limited understanding of each other. 

 

I would recommend a mediation committee be formed. That we utilize the vent room as a venue to air differences in a controlled environment with behavioral limits placed on the people involved and an understanding of rules set out to resolve the issues in a respectful manner.

 

I believe that initially when formed, this group was fairly small and resolving issues probably much simpler but it has grown to a point where it may be necessary to formalise some of these proceedures. There needs to be consequences for those who refuse to participate and support by the community for both parties involved. 

 

 I hope this suggestion will be many for conflict resolution in our community as it is a valuable and safe place for all of us to play.