When Jonathon was murdered in such a horrific way at 16 yrs old , Jackie was in a mess like that dear lady was,  things were that bad for her that i had to arrange JJs funeral and as we are a very large family   everyone stepped in to help, and while at the Church a woman came up to jackie and said to her I am sorry!  Jackie  realised this was the Mother of the Lad who killed Jj and just said thankyou to her , after   i had stood up  to read out the lamentations  that lass was still at the back of the church in tears and to our surprise jackie went to and said to her ! i know it is not your fault so I am not blaming you ,    JJ would  have been 21 this year !he died  on 13th   sept 2003 and he would have been 17 in that november,   the lad who did this is now free( he has been since 2005)   but Jackie  is still not over her grief and has Kellie who is 13  and Christofer who is  8 also Amy who is 4 who he  never met:( but i can honestly say that she has never blamed anyone about this and has said that  she wouldnt like to see other Mothers suffer the way she did so she forgave,    and since then she lost her only Sister lesley who was 37  when she passed , xMorgan