hi valann thank you for this poem, l do truly know how it hurts to be excluded, not from friends, but own family. I remember one occasion, that they said they do not want children {my children} as its not for children. Then at the do* there was children.  Though they can have whom they want, at their do* its still hurts,as children are apart of you. It also happened once to my husband he never got an invite to his side of family do*, l was very hurt for him.

 

My niece in aussie land got married, l did not get an invite, though we could not afford to go, it would been respectful and kind to invite, though l did send a card for the wedding.

 

I am srry for your friend, but l believe now, all hurts* done to us, to rise above it.

 

Again, it was two weeks later that my parents got notice of their new bungalow, it was a careful plan that my mum under the disguise of going shopping l got to see it, l had to pretend that l have not seen it, which was hard to do... why l do not know again thrown out of the loop so to speak....

 

again.... in remembering these occasions, it still makes my heart ache... but one day they would face their actions, l just hope they would say sorry, then l would forgive them, and forget all hurts

 

feel better l got that off my chest lol. god bless skydancing xx

 

 

Sidney and Suzanne Simon:

Forgiveness is freeing up and putting to better use the energy once consumed by holding grudges, harboring resentments, and nursing unhealed wounds. It is rediscovering the strengths we always had and relocating our limitless capacity to understand and accept other people and ourselves.

Love this little quote by Sidney and Suzanne and yes I guess it is true that we should re-direct the energy we feel from being hurt into something more beneficial.

 

Glad you felt better after writing about your 'hurts' Sky. It certainly leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially when it comes from your family. However I guess these are all lessons to learn and grow by if we subscribe to the belief that we reincarnate to the Earth plane to learn lessons that cannot be learnt while in Spirit.