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| | From: tesshughes44 (Original Message) | Sent: 3/3/2008 12:02 AM |
Our weather prediction was for freezing rain last night and rain today. I figured I would spend the day digging into some kind of a project. Woke to beautiful sunny skys, temps in the 50's............................ Well, with 6 horses that I have spent little time with recently.......................... I went out and spent time with the horses. I did deworm them and groomed till my bad shoulder was screaming "uncle!". We grocery shopped this a.m. I cut up all the melons and pineapple so that I could do 1 cup portions and freeze them down for use later. I have a venison shoulder blade roast in the oven, and scalloped potato's cooking. I unloaded the dishwasher and reloaded it. Washed up the cookware that can not go in the dishwasher. Hubby took all the dog rugs and blankets and put them through the wash/dry. I have on my list to mop the kitchen and bath. And to vaccumm the dining room. And sweep the living room. But I am pooped! Grandson will be here again within the hour, and he is pretty high energy. Am I bad for not getting the entire list done?????? (Please say it is ok............... ) |
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| | From: Brenda | Sent: 3/3/2008 6:36 AM |
Hi -- in my opinion, life happens... if you get a few things done on your list, that's better than some of my Saturdays where I get nothing done, either because I am feeling like a slug, or I got distracted with some other project that was more interesting than washing the shower or filing papers. So, yes, I think you did fine! -- Brenda |
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Tess......... It is OK to not do everything on your list..........seriously! You did lots of stuff. The other stuff will get done. Don't stress about it. Remember, even 5 minutes a day will help. And you did more than 5 minutes of stuff. Kat
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I read that you shouldn't make enormous to-do lists acuz then you will be discouraged by not getting it all done (like Tess was feeling there). Tho I do it anyway LOL It can be very satisfying to cross all that stuff out |
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| | From: Brenda | Sent: 3/6/2008 5:14 AM |
I actually have ADD and in more than one book that I've read about how people with Attention Deficit Disorder can become more organized they warn not to make long to-do lists, to keep it to no more than 5 tasks. One thing that I do that helps is I use Post-it Notes, the "super sticky" ones. I write one task on each "sticky." The more time sensitive ones I give a deadline and put on one kitchen cabinet door (I live alone, so nobody cares if I do this ) And I put long-term tasks, again one per "sticky", on a second cabinet door. As I finish a task, I throw away the "sticky." From time to time, I take one of the long-term tasks and break it out into a few steps, and give each step a deadline, and move those notes to the time sensitive cabinet door. For me, writing everything on one piece of paper makes me feel overwhelmed AND bad about myself if I end the day with only two things checked off. With the Post-in Note system, the "to do" list is dynamic, always in motion. to me it feels kind of like a game. -- Brenda |
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of course its ok not to finish any list! what i do (since evry1 is giving their own examples & mine is very different) is i make a general list, like: clean the following 1. front room 2. dinning room 3. back porch 4. my bedroom 5. craft room. big rooms w/ lots & lots of stuff. this is a huge list if u were to see my house! LOL! then everytime i pick something up, throw something away or clean something, i write exactly what i did on the same paper as my "big" list. i make these 2 lists parallel. then at the end of the day, i make a new list for tomorrow by looking at today's list. seeing everything i DID accomplish makes me feel very proud of myself! then i don't feel so bad for the things i didn't do or finish. |
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O that's a good idea....you reverse psychology yourself LOL |
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