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| <huggin the stuffins out of you> So good to see you!!! :))) |
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thanx dancer. I had a few weeks off and I feel great....but theres always the nagging feeling that trouble is just around the corner....lol. |
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| I think we all live with that Twink...these kids like keeping us on unstable ground...it's part of the sick kick they get and they always seem to hit us when we are distracted with life in general. Christmas is coming and I know this is when my daughter starts gearing up.... holidays are always a time when these kids seem to be at their worst. |
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| They can only take us on the roller coaster if we let them...I cashed my ticket in, no more roller coaster rides for me! LOL |
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Yes dancer.the only power they have is the power we give them. and as for christmas.can't remember a christmas time that I enjoyed...for years its been stress and chaos.......but this year P is gone.long gone....so hopefully.who knows?lol. |
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| I can empathize with you saying that Christmas is a time when our Ns like to strike. My daughter decided to waltz in for a couple of hours last Christmas, not bringing even a lousy Xmas card for us, not to mention a gift for her brother, not even a little gift from the local dollar store. How cheap is that? But she did tet a $700 camera from bf, plus lots more goodies. I told her via fone this year not to even think of coming by this holiday if she cant at least come visit us even once a month. When I was without a car most of this year because mine died, and I asked daughter for a ride to the grocery store, she never even replied back. I dont miss her any more around the holidays. Its much less stressful and besides, I couldnt afford the kinds of gifts she expects from her bf now days. |
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Oh Boy, do I know what your talking about. It really is something that we should not be in co tact with. They are all about them, and what they got and all that BS. God forbid they would think of us, a card, a box of candy, a hug.They are too in to themselves, there is no room for family. Mine if she sends a card it's a general Christmas card, not to Mom. I refuse to let her spoil my holidays, as you are. They know nothing of the Spirit of Christmas, yes we taught them but they have chosen to forget.I think they just do not want to show any effort to anyone but themselves and their wants.We taught them better then that, it's their choice to be self centered,not ours Evie |
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This discussion reminds me of the mother's day and father's day gifts that our p/n would bring home from elemantary school. He would be disgusted that he had to give them to us! I can still feel that hollow ache in my chest on those occasions. |
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