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General : grandchildren I'll never meet
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From: XtraMSN Nicknameunknownms  (Original Message)Sent: 24/11/2007 4:11 a.m.
Hi, I have had NC with my N/P son and his N wife for over 5 years. Since then . . . I've found out they had a daughter (she's now 4) and just today I found out they later had a son. So there are two grandchildren that I'll probably never know or see. I don't want any communication with my X-son or his wife . . . because they were Hell. The rages, lies, put-downs and smear campaigs were HELL. I feel sorry for their 2 children . . I assume they'll probably turn out like them. i.e., Cute, liars, ragers, sadistic, and with an extreme sense of entitlement. But I still feel bad that I have NO family. (PS my son is a clone of my X-husband & his mother who was also N's. It runs in their family. Anyway . . There is nothing I can do . . . and feel very sad, that Ill never know or see my grandchildren.


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From: XtraMSN NicknameEveningstar07Sent: 24/11/2007 11:35 p.m.
Hi....
 
I am sorry to hear that, but dont ever give up hope. These grandchildren will grow up someday and will want to know who their grandmother is. I have almost the same problem, my daughters (Ns) had 3 children, I saw them all up until 2 years ago. I dont see them now, I pray that you will see yours without the N son . God works in mysterious ways. Keep the Faith. You do have Grandparents Rights you know. Take care & May God Bless.
Evie

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From: geenantwoordSent: 2/12/2007 1:33 p.m.
Wow, unknown, what a horrible situation. Although, it is one I will probably find myself in as well someday.

Maybe it will help to realize they probably are not some cute little darling children, but potential Tasmanian Devils who are just waiting to devour you. They would have no choice growing up in a household like that I imagine!


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From: XtraMSN NicknameS11021Sent: 17/01/2008 10:26 p.m.
My heart goes out to you for your loss. 

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