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| | From:  Vera206 | Sent: 14/03/2008 10:07 p.m. |
Hi Pandora......I spent a lot of time on the Psychopath board, due to XH. I know that you cannot put the labels on kids until they are 18,,,,,,although there are children that do such terrible crimes at early ages that you have to. There are children that kill other children, we see on forensic files and other programs on TV. I think that is extremely rare. It is all so complex, my daughter just may be a Narcissist////but maybe not. She harmed me intensionally, I would never have hurt my parents as a teenager.....and I did drugs, ditched school and was rebellious....difference is: I had a conscience.
Everybodie's family dynamics are different.....some alcoholism, some drugs, some white collar crime and the list goes on. That is why I would tell people to look at the personalities of family members and that will tell you. I see my
XH in my daughter, even her STYLE of lying, her blank unemotional face. She drove me into a rage last year and for sometime before, I put my hands on her and she called the police. I have been dealing with DCSF( child protective services) for over a year. They took both kids. My mother, kids maternal GM has them now and we are not out of the woods yet. They have victimized my son, now 13. I am fighting for my son.....he is a wonderful boy, they are totally different (the genes rearranged themselves differently). He sees right through her manipulation now,,,,I have to put on an act that things are okay between myself and daughter in order to get my son.
How old is your daughter now.....I think that I read that she is now 21....could have been someone elses post. I ordered Dr. Leeland's book "Like Father Like Son", in my case, "Like Father, Like Daughter"....her link is to the left. She is writing another book also....very heavy academically.
So, enough for now, will read your postings.......have spent much time on boards about CPS and all the scandals of children in foster care that I don't get to these boards much anymore.
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| | | From: Vera206 | Sent: 14/03/2008 10:08 p.m. |
| Book is "Just Like His Father". Sorry I wrote wrong title. |
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| | | From: Vera206 | Sent: 14/03/2008 11:35 p.m. |
So, your daughter did not grow out of it. Just curious, what did she do as a teenager...what is she doing now, does she go to college? Are your other children okay?? I know that when my son grows older, he will really hate his sister because of what she has done to the family...which has taken his mom (me) away from him. Friends of mine say that I just have to play the game with Child Protective Services if I want to get my son. He is just graduation from 8th grade in June and he needs his mother. My daughter is 16 1/2...at 18 goodbye, if she is what I think she is, I will not help her at all...college etc.
My mom is supportive and knows what my daughter is, again she is protecting her grandson...if problems with daughter continue, DCSF takes all children. As a child of the 70s, I was hit with belt and flyswatter....never would have occurred to me to call cops on either parent. Before I pulled daughter's hair and dragged her from bathroom, she fisted me several times 2 days before. I REGRET NOT CALLING POLICE ON HER...but she did on me. I have been in the system with Child Protective services for a little over a year.....it is horrible///had to leave my home in order for my mom to get temp. custody.... or they would both still be in foster care. My daughter who had been telling me prior to our altercation that she wanted to be "adopted by a family from Beverly Hills"....well her 2 month foster care experience was not quite Beverly Hills. |
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