The children are the hostages of fate

 

I don't think there's anything you can do

 

I have no grandchildren from my son - I am totally glad about that

 

Byut I have no advice or suggestions because I think the more people try and do their best for their grandchildren the more power the P gets

 

What can you do?

 

It depends if you have any contact - how close geographically are they?

 

Can you watch them without interferring?

 

And don't interfer - that gives P the more power - but if you can watch and see any proof of neglect or abuse I am sure there are agencies to handle this discretely

 

I wish I had better answers - but I'm not sure there are any

 

Sparky