The problem I have with your comment is I don't know you or your mother and I don't want to take sides in your on going issues with your parents.  This site is not for this purpose.

I am not using this forum to degrade my parents.  I was just shocked to see them here.  It is just so very ironic.  My psychiatrist told me that I have a right to speak my side.  He has counseled my m and knows what her problems are.  I wont say what the diagnosis was because I don't want to hurt anyone.  All I will say is no matter how flat you make a pancake...there are always two sides.  I will leave this forum and go to children of NPs.  I will leave her be, so at least she has someone to comfort her and give her the love she needs.  I still love my m so very much.  I found her because I was worried about her.  And what I found were amazing lies about my self, my husband, and my children.  I was shocked.  Thats all. 

Good bye....and be well.

Both of these posts posts are conflicted and show:  Mom, I love you but I am going to insult you in public forum.  How confusing a message is this?  What kind of relationship can anyone have when there is so much hurt and anger?  My heart goes out to all those who feel this way regardless of why.  It's broke and this board can not fix it..

 

 

From: <NOBR>TenderMSK</NOBR>  (Original Message)

Sent: 3/16/2008 5:04 PM

I this is very interesting.  I felt like I was all alone.  My m was abusive and so was my d.  But I broke the cycle with my children.  Now I see my m is on this site spreading lies about me, my children and my husband.  Beware folks.  Some people here are not what they seem.   Love and Light to all.   Tender

Hi. If there is a problem with messages which concern you, contact the manager - [email protected].  Our forums are not used as family battle grounds .

I agree and hope this fine counsel is taken...she would not listen to me so hopefully she will hear you...s1