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| | From:  kellomal (Original Message) | Sent: 12/04/2008 4:42 p.m. |
Hi everyone, I used to visit this site quite often but then I migrated about 20 months ago and I just want to get back in touch. Its good to see some familiar names and some new ones too. For those of you that remember me, I left my Pson behind and although it was the most difficult thing I have ever done, it has also been the best. He has continued his terror and manipulation with people and I am glad I have left that behind. My other son, you may recall, I was so concerned about as he had so many traits of his Pbro, well he has confirmed all my doubts. The only good thing is that I had another son last year and he is just adorable. I just worry about my son here and wonder how and when it will all end. It would be so much easier if he would get a job and leave home as I worry about the influence he will have over the baby. I do not trust him at all with the baby and feel uneasy even when they are in the same room. I caught him in the babies room last week and he was holding him- I froze as he has never held him or shown any real interest in him so it was a huge shock to find him not only in his roo but holdind him. It may sound like I am over reacting but he really was hyperventilating when I walked in the room and looked as guilty as hell as if he was up to no good-------am I going mad or do I have reason to be concerned?? kellomal |
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If your gut is telling you something...believe it. Especially with these Pkids of ours. I never trusted mine with my youngest. He did alot of things. I never trusted him with either of my younger kids actually |
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| | | From: kellomal | Sent: 13/04/2008 4:49 a.m. |
Hi pandora Great to hear from you. How are things with your P? Life here is great but we get so homesick at times. You mentioned the big kids site?? -- the general one. Is this site different then than the one I used to drop in on? Loads of hugs to you and great you are still around!!!! |
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| | | From: kellomal | Sent: 13/04/2008 4:52 a.m. |
Hi keepbeingtrue You are so right when you say if it is my gut instinct then I must believe it. I was so shocked at myself for thinking like that but then I reminded myself that this is a P I am talking about. |
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Hi kell. too much going on really for me to post.......maybe can share in a few weeks time?? as for your questions re your son..didn't answer you cos you already know the answer. sorry. |
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Hey, Keep an eye on the baby!! When one of my p/n's was 5 she use to do a particular act to her baby dolls with a particular object. Of course I would get on to her about it and tell her to quit it. One day, her 5 month old brother was laying in the play pen, and she didn't know I was watching her. She slowly inched over, then sat down by the play pen. Still not knowing I was watching her she got up and as she was leaning over the play pen I ran over and demanded to see what was in her hand. It was the "object" ( I want to keep some privacy to this) she use to hurt her baby dolls with. I about fainted. Needless to say, she was never alone with him again. All the psychologist could say was "keep an eye on her".. Why she would come up with this act, I don't know, my family doesn't know, and the psychologist didn't know. She had previously choked and put a pillow over another younger sister. Why?? who knows and who cares now.. She's grown and on her own. People project their own childhood insecurities and hurts on these kids, but that is rarely the real reason for this behavior. Good luck and you will get through this!! I am winding down to the home stretch! :) |
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| | | From: kellomal | Sent: 15/04/2008 1:53 p.m. |
Hi maligned-----thanks for that. What these kids are capable of is beyond belief and what goes on in their heads is so frightening and we must do all we can to protect any innocent children around them. I just hope P is long gone before he has any opportunity to manipulate him or have any influence on him. Kel |
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