Hi Pandora,
Giving them roots and wings is an important start in normal kids. With these Ps it makes no difference what you give them or dont give them or how much or how little----they will be what they will be---what they were born to be and I really dont believe anything can alter that for them.
I am just waiting for 15yr to get wings------- and he is no angel!!
Then I can enjoy some earned peace and tranquility.
Kel