At 14 my pn expected me to listen to everything, how he was so good at everything, how he was going to do great things...at 14 the police were at my door more often than not...a normal day was the school calling with one complaint or another.  Everytime the phone rang or the doorbell chimed, the first thought in my head was "Oh no not again"

Now at 21 it isn't much different.  He still thinks we're here to listen to him, rant and rave, or sing.  He still thinks we owe him alot more than we gave him:>)  And I have panic disorder everytime he starts calling again.  Sometimes he goes away for a couple of weeks...it is like living a fairy tail when he doesn't call for a while.  And if a police cruiser ever pulls into our driveway I think..."Uh oh what did he do now."

I'm just waiting for him to do something that will put him away for a long time...I'm pretty sure it will happen, it's a question of when.

I'm looking forward to it.  From jail he will have no control, if I tell them I don't want him calling here, they won't allow him too...and we definitely won't be getting calls at 3 am...we won't have to worry about him breaking into our house anymore, and all in all we will sleep MUCH better at night:>)

 

kbt our 14 tr old does just that -he'll tell me how i don't makes any sense then he wants  me to drop everything and  listen to  the latest song he's learned. did i mention that it's my guitar and he takes it with him all the time. let him have it- i'm buying myself a new one(present 4 meeeeeeeeee)-im going to ejoy hitting the hay-yaaaaawwwwwwwwwwn...........-belrose