My 30 yr old daughter is  a N. I live with her because I am handicaped and she wanted to live with me to help me out starting 4 yrs ago. Well,since then she has helped me out by depleteing my savings and I loaned her money for a car and the deal was she is to pay me $200 a month to repay me. and I sold my car for money to love to OK from FL. She said she would get me a used car if I sold mine. Well, she recently told me she is not going to repay me because will all the money she spent the past 4 yrs she thinks she doesn't owe me.....she is talking about her share of rent and utilities. I paid out for them too. Now she met a man2 months ago and is getting married. Since then I am disposable and even her 2 cats she is going to kill so she can travel with her man for a year. She told me I am not allowed to talk to her when she first gets home,and one in her bedroom I can not talk to her,which is usually 15 mins after she gets home. I asked her once...how are you doing? when she was in her room,and she went bolistic on me.

She tries to make me think I m going crazy...she takes money and food from me and says she hasn't. But she has...she says I forgot that I let her. Well, I started to write down everything and just as I thought she was manipulating me. I asked once to do my laundry right after I just came home from the hospital from heart failure and pneumonia. She did the wash but never gave me the clean close. When I asked for them a week later when I was out of underwear she screamed at me about wanting my clothes.

She told me I could use her car because I don't have one. But she will not let me drive it. She rolls her eyes and gets mean almost everytime I talk to her.

I am unable to clean the house/...and she has not cleaned the bathrooms or my room for 3 months.

I m not to bend over because of my illnesses and I tell her that the cat box is filthy...when the cats come on my bed with poop between their toes and she won't clean it..so I have to ..same for the water and food for them. She won't refill the containers and I have to. It is very hard on me.

She puts my mail on hold at the post office and last week I didn't get it for a week. And she doesn't give me my mail she doesn't want me to have. There are times she goes and picks of my medications and I won't get my sleeping pills or pain pills and I call the pharmacy and they said they gave them to her...but I never get them. She thinks I am yelling at her when I am not. This is some example of my daughter.

Now she is getting married to an old man and today she told me that he is getting a will for her and it will be her house and 9acres. this man would never believe me about her..she is very charismatic and can look so innocent. Time will show him what she is like. She has called my other daughter who lives in another state and says all these things bad about me or what I supposingly said. Now my other daughter is confussed on who to believe. It is so sad. She has isolated me. I m already bedridden and now she has gotten me even more isolated.  I called social service and a social worker came out today. She is going to get me applications for subsidized housing and bring it to me and mail it for me,because I do not get my mail. She is going to call my other daughter too. I hope my other daughter backs me up...I am scarred about this because how mary is trying to turn everyone against me. A month ago her fiance told her I was nice and a fasination person. I replied, I like him too. Then she said to me...this is not a competition and got really mad. I said to her....that is sick and wrong to think I would wnt your man and cross those boundaries. Since then I haven't seen him...she always goes for days to his place which is out of state. She has taken all I have and plays the martyre and is leaving me high and dry. I never saw this coming. I was married to a N and engaged to a NP after that and then is when I woke up to this type in men. I can spot it in men...and see the red flags....but I never saw it with my own daughter until she did all this.I m so glad to have a place to come to and you will understand.